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Onward and upward! something that you say in order to encourage someone to forget an unpleasant experience or failure and to think about the future instead and move forward.

My e-mail: jjmiller6213@comcast.net

Monday, January 20, 2014

Releif

Today's high temperature was: 23 degrees at noon
10 degrees now.  Minus degrees tomorrow.
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I wish Alberta would keep her Clippers up there in Canada, where they belong.
I wish Santa would keep his Polar air, up at the North Pole, where it belongs.
We are heading into another week of minus and single digit temperatures.

Not that it will effect me all that much.  I have no where to go and nothing to do so......I will stay warm and cozy in my wee residence.

Got up this morning and was going to take a shower--no hot water.  All sorts of worse case scenarios went through my head as I cleaned out the bedroom closet to get to the hot water heater waaaaaay in the back.  Heating element burned out?  Nope--I have a gas heater--they don't have an element.  They have a pan with the gas burner under it.  Down draft of air blew out the pilot light?  Probably--has happened before, but not in the last 3 years.  

I called Pearl's husband Merle and he came down to together, we figured it out.  Got the pilot light lit, turned the dial to "ON" and...whoosh, on came the gas and the day was saved.

Merle went home and I noticed that the toilet was running--like it needed the flush handle jiggled.  I jiggled.  It kept running.  So............I took off the tank cover and jiggled and fiddled and found out the problem.  The water leveler, on the float, had been turned so that the float never went back into his "hole" to let the tank fill up.  Turned it back and all was well.  Saved the day again.

Finally has enough hot water to take a shower.

Watched my soap, and traveled to the Chiropractor.

My headache was once again galloping all over the top of my head, my neck hurt so bad I could hardly turn it, the pain behind my shoulder blade (scapula) was back and my arm was numb.

I got the massage--it hurt so bad, but this girl knows what she's doing.  Then I saw the doc.  He gently held my head and moved my neck back and forth a bit--then he used his magic Woody Woodpecker tool up and down my spine, on my shoulder joints and my neck.  Then I moved to another room and another tech came in and ran the Thumper all up and down my spine, neck, and down my back, legs and feet.

I was so limp I didn't know if I'd be able to walk back to the car.  The cost?  $10.00--that was for the massage--the rest of the Chiropractic visit is paid for my Medicare.  I go back next week.  I will have to go once a week for, probably, four weeks, then every other week, until I can get back to the monthly maintenance.  I never should have quit going in November--6 weeks is just too long--the reason being?  I have slipped twice on the ice and contorted my spine and neck keeping my balance, PLUS, the old arthritic joints were really hurting.  Feel very sore tonight and probably will a bit tomorrow, but by Wednesday, if it is as it was before, I will be pain free.  At least the headache is gone!!!

Now--I have parked my car and don't think I will have to venture out until Thursday, when I once again, run out of Diet Pepsi and milk.  I have been without CAKE for three days and I may have to get some soon!  I was going to stop today on the way home, but something told me I was too tired, so instead of going through Brighton to get home, I came home the back way and when I got up to the west side of town, the corner where I turn right to come home, there was a very long line of traffic going into town.  I looked in my rear view mirrors and I could see fire trucks and ambulances, so, apparently there had been an accident.  I'm glad I listened to the God Whisper that told me to go the other way.

Now--I am exhausted and going to bed.  

I have such an exciting life!!!!!

Friday, January 17, 2014

Some Days..........

Today's high temperature was: 30 degrees
Partly Sunny
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I don't understand how I can feel so great one day and then the next, feel so dizzy and woozy.  Some days--I just can hardly get around.  This is one of those days.

I have had a vicious headache for three days.  I haven't had a headache in years, so I knew this one was probably a pre-condition for a stroke.  Or, perhaps I had a brain aneurysm?  It might also be a brain tumor,as my balance has been off lately.  I suppose it could be from the arthritis in my neck?  I have been having a lot of neck pain lately.  BUT--you know me and my fears/worries/phobias/neuroses!  I have to believe the worst about everything, so if it DOES happen, I am prepared!!

I could not get to sleep last night because of the pain so at midnight, I went to my bathroom drug cabinet and pulled out the bottle of Tylenol #3 (with Codeine).  I wanted to take a Percocet, but decided that was too strong and might make me woozy today.

I slept well.  Woke up fairly early and my head was so foggy. it seemed hard to see and my balance was off and the headache was back.  Yup--with the balance problem, it was probably a stroke.

At least I knew what day it was, thanks to my flip card, hanging on my
bedroom closet door knob.


So, Buddy and I climbed into my chair
and watched TV and cross stitched and watched the show
going on outside the window.





The headache would not go away, but I was feeling a bit steadier on my feet--obviously a hangover from the pain pill I took last night.  I got out of my chair at noon, ate some Tuna-Mac salad and, thinking of how my neck was hurting and it might be the arthritis, I took a Naproxen.

Two hours later, after my soap, the headache was gone, my neck didn't hurt anymore and I was ready to tackle this!!

This job should take 10-15 minutes.  Unhook the chain that
goes to the flapper, from the flush lever.
HOWEVER--as it always is,  the old lever had a small
"O" ring that was attached to the lever.  The chain,
instead of having a simple hook onto the lever, 
had instead a lock hook, onto the "O" ring on the lever!
.  I had to use the needle nose
pliers to pinch together the chain hook and get if off the "O" ring.

Got it off, however the chain fell down into the icy
water of the tank.
Got the lever out with no problem and since
the new lever had no "O" ring to attach the chain,
I had to pry it off with the pliers, from the old one
to use on the new one,  and...
of course it broke!
Let's worry about that later.

The new lever went through the whole on the side of the
tank easily, HOWEVER, as it always is, the lever
was sticking up toward the tank top.
I took it out and put it in the other way and now...
the lever was sticking out over the edge of the tank,
with the handle facing backwards.
This is a Universal flush lever--to fit side or front
flush handle spot, but something definitely is amiss.

I cut the new level for the correct length and then...
laid it beside the old one and could see the problem.
Different angle and no matter which way I put it
into the hole, it would not work.

Okay--not to worry because the only damn thing
I needed to fix the old lever, is the plastic nut
that holds the lever tight against the inside of
the tank--and the new lever has one such nut.


Threw the new lever into the wastebasket.
Slide the old lever back into place,
put the new plastic nut on it and turned it--
ah yes--reverse threaded--GEEZ.
Got it tightened on--now to hook it back up.

Okay--the little metal "O" ring that the chain clips into is broken.
So..what can we use?
Undaunted--I got some of my copper wire and cut off a small bit.

Man that water in the tank is cold!!!
Pushed the wire through the hole in the lever and attached the clip from the chain--
wired it up and--VOILA

So I cobbled the job, and it took me twice as long, but guess what--it flushes just perfectly and in the whole scheme of things--that is all that is necessary!!

Put all my tools away and wobbled back to my chair.  The headache was back and making me nauseous--just like a Migraine would.  

I'm very, very glad I have an appointment at the Chiropractor's on Monday because, that will help my back, neck, shoulder and all will be well--I just know it will.  AND no more "Mind Monsters" (as Bella calls them) about strokes, aneurysm or brain tumor to worry about!!!

....and if this nausea keeps up, at least I have a flushing toilet to curl-up around!
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I almost forgot--today is my oldest child and only son's birthday.  Mark Templeton Miller
January 17, 1958
7:28 p.m.
8# 15 oz.
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Balisha--I already had the frame and was thinking about what I could cross stitch to put in it. 

 9 x 26 inches















Thursday, January 16, 2014

Good Grief!

Today's high temperature was: 23 degrees
Snow
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I decided yesterday that I wouldn't run up to the store.  That I would stop on my way home today, after the school gals luncheon.  Then I decided not to go to the luncheon.  So, this morning wanted to run up to the store.  I was out of  milk, wet cat good, Diet Pepsi and I wanted to get a new "nut" to put on my toilet flush handle to fix it.

It was snowing a bit, but the weather man had said, "1/2 to 1 inch"--no big deal.  I decided to wait until 2:00 to go--the snow was suppose to stop by then.

Well--let me tell you what--it was still coming down at 2:00, heavier then this morning and the wind was blowing!  It took me forever to clean off my car and get the windows defrosted and take off.  The semi-highway out in front is usually always clear--not this afternoon.  It was slushy with snow and it was slick under the snow.  The Meijer store is on the right side of the highway, so I just got in the right lane and drove along--I was going about 45, when I had to stop at a traffic light and the car wanted to slide a bit, so I slowed it down to 35.  A better idea anyway as it was practically a white out!!

Got to the store and got everything I needed, and a few more things--as it always seems I do.  Couldn't find just a nut for the flush lever, so I bought a whole new handle kit--cost $7.00.  It is made of plastic, as the original one I had is, but here, in this area of water with a high content of lime, calcium, rust--plastic holds up much better than metal.  It's going to be an easy fix, actually.  Unhook the handle from the chain that goes down to the flapper, put the new handle in, tighten the nut, hook the handle up to the chain.  Easy Peasy.

Of course, it won't be, because--I have a high profile toilet and the bathroom furniture is sits under, makes working in the tank very tight.  I shall prevail however, even if I have to empty everything out of that cabinet and move it out.  No big deal!! (she said).

Loaded up the car with groceries, drove home--even heavier snow then before, brought up the empty garbage can, got the mail, unloaded all the groceries and got in the house.  I was covered with wet, cold snow.  My hair was sopping wet--I have my summer hair cut you know--very short.  All of this misery could be alleviated a bit IF I wore a hat.  And gloves.  And boots.  LOL.  I don't even start wearing a winter coat until Christmas......two days ago, I was outside filling bird feeders and walked down to Pearls in my sweatshirt.  It was 40 degrees--I didn't need a coat.
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Finally got the camera---6 days after promised arrival date.  It is newer then mine, but it is not as nice.  Mine had an eye piece to look through AND the screen--this one only has the screen to hold up in front of you.  Mine had a stabilizer thingie so I could take pictures and not worry about my shaky hand.  This one does not.  BUT--it was half the price of what it would have cost to fix my old one--which had already been repaired two years ago.  I have trouble with the zoom feature--things tend to come out blurry--but that may be my shaky hand.  I did manage to get some pix.

I think I already showed you my school?


The Methodist Church where my grandfather once preached,
my parents were married (and buried), where I was baptized, as
were all my children.  Where I got married, my sister,
and Pammie got married.
My mother planted 5 small pine trees around that church
when I was in first grade.  They are still there, and nearly
70 years old.


The ancestor's house, where sister lives now.
Their yard is full of Maples, so I had to put a Maple
tree in the picture.
I had a heck of a time trying to figure out how to
put Ginger Bread trim along the eaves.  Some goes over
the windows too, but thought it showed too much clutter.
Also got my school bus stitched, with the name of
the town--Byron.


Not a very good picture.  
I remembered to put my dog over by my childhood farm--left side.

So--there it is.  The first eighteen years of my life.  I just wanted to keep adding things--I had such a great time making this.  I still do not know how I did it.  I have never cross stitched anything without a pattern.  My Mother would be amazed (as was my sister, LOL)

Now to stretch it on a piece of foam core and get it into the frame.


Of course, the minute I was done with this, I started the new quilt.

This thing is loooooong.
It will take me a few months to finish--
which is a good thing.




Oh just great--it's still snowing outside.  Oh well--doesn't matter.  I have no where to go until Monday.

Let's see what tomorrow brings.  It is Friday you know--or so my hanging flip cards tell me, LOL.

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

I Think It Will Help.....

...because--I took card stock paper and on each sheet, I typed in two days of the week, ex. MONDAY, then farther down,  TUESDAY--in 72 font and bold.  Then I cut the pages in half so both were the same size, punched holes in the top, put a piece of heavy duty string through the holes, and now that contraption hangs on my bedroom closet door and when I go to bed, I flip the next card over, so that when I wake up in the morning, the first thing I see is--THE CORRECT DAY OF THE WEEK.  and...it really helped this morning.  I knew it was Wednesday all day and was not confused at all, wondering what day it was and if I had something special to do or watch on TV.  

Hey--I may be losing my memory, but I still got my ingenuity!!!
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So--Pearl is constantly yelling at me because I never go anywhere, so this morning, I walked up to her place and sat and chatted with her for over an hour. 

Then I came home and wrote out checks and paid bills on-line.  

My friend from Saginaw called, but she couldn't talk.  She refuses to get the flu shot and now she has the flu and is very, very sick.  I hope it doesn't go into pneumonia!!

Watched my soap and cross stitched.

Then Bethie called to say, she and her hubs were going to a movie in town and she was going to stop out to bring me dry cat food and the loaf of Banana-Nut bread that she forgot at the last luncheon.  It was so good to see her and chat a bit.  That bread is out of this world!!!  It isn't made from any boxed mix that's for sure.  A nice big slice, warmed a bit and slathered with butter (and I mean slathered) was so good, when I finished it, I had to have another big slice!!!
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Then I cleaned up and hauled out my garbage can because--I KNEW it was Wednesday :-)

Ate some Tuna-Mac Casserole that I made yesterday--I actually cooked.  I had Tuna-Mac salad for lunch and Tuna-Mac casserole for supper.  I live such an exciting life.

Then I watched the news, and Wheel of Fortune and (my favorite) Jeopardy and watched MSU beat NorthWestern in basketball.  

During  half-time I called my little sis and we talked for an hour!!!  So nice.
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I got an e-mail from Bethie telling me she was not going to the girls luncheon tomorrow, because..........of all the reasons I had blogged about last month.  I can remember, when we used to get together, we'd sit and talk and laugh and didn't want to leave after two hours.  Now, no one talks, we start looking at our watches as soon as we are done eating, and the only important bit of information is deciding where the next luncheon will be.  Can anyone say, BORING?

About the only reason I even go now is because I get to stop in afterwards and visit with my sister, but not tomorrow--because I decided last month that I wasn't going to go this month, except I had something to give to Bethie and we took care of that this afternoon!

I think your advice was correct--attend every other month or two.
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So what do you all think about that story of the lady who is brain dead, but is pregnant (16 weeks) and by law the hospital can't pull the plug, but her husband and family want too?

Let us hope none of us are ever faced with a decision like that!!!  On the one hand, the woman is truly head, but they can keep her body functioning with life support.

On the other hand, there is another life involved here.  Apparently the baby is still alive.  Can they wait another month or so to see, through an ultra sound, if the baby is viable and could be born via Caesarean?  Man alive--what an awful situation.

Well, enough of all that.  Tomorrow I am going shopping because I am out of milk, Diet Pepsi, wet cat food and I need to see if I can get that part to fix my toilet handle.  

Geez--husband's do come in handy at times!  I can't quite figure out how to fix it and I know, Fred would know right away.

Wish my camera would get here--I have so much to show you!!!


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Tuesday--I Think?

Today's  high temperature was:  39 degrees
Sunny
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Seriously friends, I think I am going to type the days of the week on separate sheets, so I can flip over at night, so when I wake up I know what day it is.  I could have sworn, all day today, it felt like a Friday.  I am seriously worried about my mental capabilities!!!
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I was just wondering, last weekend, about Ariel Sharon.  If he were still alive and then, I heard on TV, that he had died.  He has been in a coma for 8 years!  They have kept him on life support for that long, until his organs finally just shut down.  Of course, here in the USofA, he would  have been disconnected from life support.  There had been brain activity, so I don't suppose he was dead all this time...or was he?  I was told, long ago, that a person wasn't completely dead as long as the machine showed brain activity--not until they "flat-lined" were they truly dead.  I get confused by that.  Nowadays with all the machines that are available, is it right to keep someone "alive" as long as possible?  Better in the old days when you went into a coma they just let you go naturally and no one had to make the awful decision to take a loved one off life support.

So glad, I have never had to make that decision.  I know that Fred never wanted to be on life support, but...what would I have done if his heart was still beating and his chest was moving up and down?  I might have thought he might come back?  I might have thought he was still alive?  Oh well--it would have been his kid's decision--thank you God, we never had to make the decision.
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I took this test today--it was fun and I liked my results.
http://gosset.wharton.upenn.edu/mortality/perl/CalcForm.html

When I posted, yesterday, about what I had done--that was not all in one day.  It was accomplished over four days time period.  Sorry if I confused you.

I have a plan!! You know the baby quilts I have been cross stitching?  I have made 3 and started working on the 4th one.  I said they were being put away for any great grandchildren.  I have decided to make 9 of the quilts.  One to go to the first born child of each of my grand children.  I have now released any guilt I had about making these. (Because in reality, they are merely projects to keep me busy).  LOL

I sure wish that camera would get here!!!

Prayers tonight for blogger friends, friends here in Michigan--many very ill with the flu or pneumonia, one friend's mother has sepsis infection and one dear blogger buddy's daughter is in hospital with gastric problems.

I watched Mother Angelica tonight.  My daughter Karen thinks it strange that I, a protestant, would watch a TV show of a Catholic Nun, but...I really like her.  The shows are from the 1990's, as she is no longer on TV.  She is in her nineties now.  I just like her no nonsense advice and how we should live. 

Here is the best I could do on a picture of the baby quilt I am working on.  I had to scan the picture off the kit to show you.  It is a full size quilt, so it will take me many months to finish--which is a good thing.  I love the verse.



See ya tomorrow---Jude

Monday, January 13, 2014

My Goodness

Today's high temperature was:  44 degrees
Sunny
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It has been above freezing for four days and the snow is going fast, which is good because we have an Alberta Clipper with 3 inches of snow coming into tomorrow.  Hey--it's Michigan and it's January.

I can't believe it has been so long since I've blogged.  I have so much to show you, but haven't received my camera from e-bay as yet.  It's coming ALL the way from New York--the seller is using the excuse of bad weather.  Which may be the case, BUT I so miss my camera.  It just occurred to me that I take photos almost every day!

Let's see--I went to the Rich People's store and thanks to Melissa, I got a nice hunk of yellow cake with an inch of wonderful frosting,  a pound of good ground round, and three salads.

Thanks to daughter Pammie, I went to Wal-Mart and got Diet Pepsi on sale, some cat food, milk and other stuff.

Thanks to my sister Susan, I went to Meijer's and got  a whole bunch of groceries.

Thanks to daughter Karen, I stopped at Subway and got supper.

I got my hair cut Saturday--really short--I still can't use to the color--grey and dark in back, but I like it.

I got my childhood cross stitch all done--that is what I want to show you.  I am still amazed at myself--I don't know how I figured it all out, but it turned out great.

I got a full size baby crib quilt on e-bay for $10.00 and have started it already.  It normally would have cost nearly $70.00 new.  I love the verse.


Let me see--what else have I done.

Changed the furnace filter.  
Cleaned the humidifier.
Sprayed my big shower with my special lime removing mixture and scrubbed it and it is shiny and bright.
Visited with Pearl--she's bored with winter.
Watched a DVD of "Safe Haven", the Nicholas Sparks book that I could not read because it was about spousal abuse, the movie was good.
Watched MSU continue to win their basket ball games.
Got a phone call from Pammie.
Had a visit from Dar--she is having very real health problems.
Watched another DVD about Martin Luther--gave me a new understanding of what he did and why.
A visit from my sister and her hubby--sent last year's files home with him to burn--as they had SS number and credit card numbers on them.
Tried to fix the flush handle on my toilet.  Have to get a new part and I think I can fix it myself.
Watched a movie marathon on Hallmark channel this past Sunday--Janette Oak books. Wonderful stories of pioneer women--the Love Comes Softly series.

I think that's about all the high points of my life this past week.  Oh wait--got a good stare from an old guy at the gas station today.  He was rather cute--tall, not too chubby AND, I noticed his sneakers were untied--which is the way Fred always wore his.  

As soon as I get that camera, I will post pictures of the Childhood cross stitch panel.

Later--Jude