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Onward and upward! something that you say in order to encourage someone to forget an unpleasant experience or failure and to think about the future instead and move forward.

My e-mail: jjmiller6213@comcast.net

Friday, April 8, 2016

Here and There

I haven't been very good about posting AND I haven't been very good about reading all your posts either.  I will try and do better--next week.

I should be done with John's genealogy tomorrow.  I found a newspaper clipping(s), that he told me about his Uncle who was killed in a fall at the paper company up in Munising, MI.  He is going to be surprised and happy because he told me that every time he gets up in that area, he goes to the Library and looks at reels and reels of microfiche, but never could find anything.  I also found out something about his great grandfather that is not very nice.

John told me that his grandma and her other siblings had been adopted.  Not true.  Yes, they were adopted, but not INTO the family, but taken away and adopted by other family members.  I found a newspaper account of the fact that his Great Grandfather deserted his wife and children.  Then his wife died and when he came back to Michigan, there was a warrant for his arrest.  Before the police could get him, he abused two of his daughters--John's grandma being one of them.  "They" took the children away and his grandma, at age 15, had to go and live in an Industrial School for Girls, until age 18. 

Her younger sibs were adopted by her mother's parents and aunts.  When the Great Grandpa got out of jail in Detroit, he went back to Calgary, Canada where he was born many years before.

I hope this isn't upsetting to John.  The sins of the grandparents do not reflect on him!!!

So strange and something I do not understand--as an only child for so long and now my only sib is my sister----Wednesday night, I handed him a paper and pen and asked him to write down his sisters and brothers and the years they were born, or if he didn't know that, how old they are now.

He could not remember all of them!!!!!  His parents had 13 children in 23 years.  Three of them died as babies--he remembered about that, but he had a hard time getting the names in birth order.

I can't imagine living with that many siblings!  How would you ever get any time with your Mother?  With an alcoholic father, absent a lot of the time and his mother having to work....................it makes me sad for this little, old guy.
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I had a strange and weird situation yesterday and today.

I am starting a new pattern test for Chris.  It is a vest, an unusual vest.  She got the yarn for it when she was here in September.

It is Knitting yarn #2 weight--very fine yarn.  What we have is a variegated Mohair yarn, but Chris wanted me to test crochet it in a solid color.

Yesterday, I went into Brighton to JoAnn's to find it. We had purchased the original yarn there.  I couldn't find any with that weight, so I asked a saleslady, who I have dealt with before and who is ALWAYS very snotty!

"We don't have any.  NO ONE uses that weight yarn anymore!"  and she walked away from me like I was some sort of idiot.  I looked around some more and DID find that weight by the same maker as the variegated yarn and in the right color.  I grabbed 6 skeins of the color.  It is expensive.  $44.46 for 6 skeins!!

I e-mailed Chris a picture and she responded back that she wanted me to do the test, not on this Mohair type of yarn, but just a regular acrylic, because while testing, if I had to rip it back, the Mohair is a pain.

I had to go back into Brighton today to get a couple of inkjet refills to print out John's book, so I stopped at Michael's to see if they had the yarn.  I took the JoAnn's yarn with me, thinking that if I could buy the non-mohair at Michael's. I'd take back the yarn to JoAnn's (the stores are next to each other).  

I looked and looked--up and down the yarn section aisles--two times.  Than I found a saleslady working in that section and asked her.  She replied,  "We don't carry that weight yarn anymore.  No one seems to use it," in a much nicer manner than the lady at JoAnn's.  Then, just to be sure, she got on her walkie-talkie and asked someone else if they still had some back in the storage room.

Nope.

Why I find this strange?  I have several skeins of #2 weight yarn in my stash.  In pink, blue and white.  I use it for the special baby afghan I make for people.

So, when I got home, I jumped on-line and....Mary Maxim's and Herrschners do not carry it either.  The only place I could find it was on the site of the brand of the yarn we got AND, it doesn't come in anything except Mohair.  

I just hope I don't run out of the yarn before the test vest is done or I am in deep doo-doo!
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I guess I am getting too old to keep up, nowadays.  It seems there is always some favorite something I want and it is no longer manufactured!

I plan on finishing up my bedroom spring clean tomorrow (she said with good intentions.)

8 comments:

  1. ARGH! John's great grandpa sounds like such a scumbag! And his father, too. I hope John isn't too upset with his history. I missed your previous post, so I assume John asked you and is quite interested. Knowing one's history is invaluable, as I'm discovering. Gosh. One of 13 kids(or 10 that survived). The poor man must have gotten shortchanged on love, bigtime. Not at all what a child deserves.

    I'm very tempted to ask you to do genealogy research on my family, if you're able to uncover such rich detail. Amazing, Judy!

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    1. I could do it and I wouldn't tell any secrets. LOL
      Do you have my e-mail? If you are interested just let me know.

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  2. I don't think telling John his family history will upset him. In fact, it might make a lot of unexplained things fall into place. My mom's siblings were all separated at an early age and finding out who went where and why explained why some sisters resented others.

    I have some of that fine yarn here, too. I guess I won't be sending it off to Goodwill. It makes great baby things. There is a store here in a tourist town and all they sell is knitting things. I'll bet they'd have it. I have never seen so many different and odd-ball yarns in one place in my life! A lot of imports, like the mohair that cost a fortune.

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    1. John has family stories that I have found have no basis of truth in them. I think most people want to do their genealogy so they can read what their ancestor's were like. As you know, genealogy is mostly just facts, census reports, etc. Rarely do I run onto a newspaper clipping or obituary that tells of how the person lived, but....when I do? It is a YAHOO moment!

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  3. My Mom was from a family of 11 kids ... and my Father in Law from a family of 13. I'm from a family of six.... and lived in 1,000 3 bedroom one bath house! I liked the fact I was never alone (so no scary nights in bed!) Always someone to play with. Big groups to play games! It was fun because I had nothing to compare it to.

    I think you should/could determine a PRICE as I, too, might like to hire you to work on mine! Might be a great way to get Diet Pepsi money!!!

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    1. It can get costly, if I charged for my time. I've put in nearly 30 hours on John's. Even at $5.00 an hour, that's $150.00 for labor. Then I have the expense of color and black inkjets, paper, getting it punched and coiled. Just expenses for John's have run me $50.00 so far. If I print it out on the nice paper, that paper is $40.00 a box! Plus it costs $20.00 to be on Ancestry for a month. Of course, I won't charge him a thing, but.......it cost me $110.00 per book just in supplies for the ones I did for my kids. As you can see, just one book could run upwards in the $300.00 range and...that seems like a whole lot of money to me.

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  4. You're such a nice person to do that for John. I have a cousin who worked for years on my mom's side of the family. But, that was mostly dates and names that went back a couple of centuries I believe.

    Did I tell you about my "cousin" who claimed after Mom passed, of course, that she was actually my sister. It was not a good visit, and I feel if Mom did have her at 16, there was a good reason for the secret. I told my cousin before I left her house "well, whether you're my sister or cousin, call me if you need a kidney".

    xoxo

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  5. Awww...poor John...such sad news!
    hughugs

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