The underlying anger, depression, loneliness, tears remain so---I am going "home", up to the Farms, to feel and connect to my roots. I need to get centered again and that will do it.
Thursday, November 17, 2016
Thursday
Happy 3 weeks old, Della. Auntie Madeleine is trying to make you into a ballerina.
The underlying anger, depression, loneliness, tears remain so---I am going "home", up to the Farms, to feel and connect to my roots. I need to get centered again and that will do it.
The underlying anger, depression, loneliness, tears remain so---I am going "home", up to the Farms, to feel and connect to my roots. I need to get centered again and that will do it.
Tuesday, November 15, 2016
I'll be fine........
#1. I would never take my own life. It's against my religion. I am pro-life and that means any beating heart should not be stopped by any means, other than God's.
#2. This time of year is a lonely time for me. If Fred where still with me, I would make "Turkey dinner for Two," and we'd have our very own Christmas morning together.
#3. I would never ask my daughter or sister to make a 25 or a 50 mile round-trip to come pick me up and bring me home and I can't leave my cats alone all night. They get wet food at 8:00 at night and 8:00 in the morning.
#4. The time change with the early darkness and the Super Moon have made me a bit depressed and looney.
#5. I'll be fine.
#2. This time of year is a lonely time for me. If Fred where still with me, I would make "Turkey dinner for Two," and we'd have our very own Christmas morning together.
#3. I would never ask my daughter or sister to make a 25 or a 50 mile round-trip to come pick me up and bring me home and I can't leave my cats alone all night. They get wet food at 8:00 at night and 8:00 in the morning.
#4. The time change with the early darkness and the Super Moon have made me a bit depressed and looney.
#5. I'll be fine.
Monday, November 14, 2016
Fiddler on the roof--
I feel like Tevye.
Perhaps if I climbed up on my roof and started yelling about TRADITION, the news cameras would come and my kids might see me on the news and know that I am sad and angry. Most probably, the police would come and take me to the Nursing Home--which wouldn't be all that bad. At least there would be a reason why I would be alone at Thanksgiving and Christmas!
Tradition! I am big on tradition. Every Thanksgiving our entire family met on that day. Not the day before, not the day after--ON THAT DAY! There were no excuses. We KNEW we would be together ON THAT DAY! After my Mother died, I kept up the Tradition. When my kids got older and married, they would come to the house--the Grandmother's house for dinner--1:00 precisely, and then later in the afternoon, go visit their in-laws.
Christmas Eve--always at my Dad's. 7:00 pm, then changed to 4:00 pm because Karen and Mark and their kids had to leave to go to Mass with his parents. Then changed up to 1:00, so my son and his girlfriend could go to her Mom's, because her Mom always had Christmas Eve in the evening.
After Daddy died, we still kept the same tradition. At the ancestor's house where my sister now lived. We accommodated Mark and Cindy and the Catholic Rivard's. We had our Christmas Eve at noon then.
I didn't like it, but I kept my smile pasted on my face and was joyful. At least, once a year we all were together.
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Now, I find out that this year my oldest grandson will be hosting Thanksgiving at his house. Near Toledo--some 100 miles away. "You could ride down with us, Mom," said Karen, "but we will be getting home late and you can't drive after dark."
My sister and her hubs are going to her son's house--some 65 miles away. I could ride up with them, but would have to drive from their house, home, in the dark.
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I also have found out, Christmas Eve will be celebrated on the 23rd. Why? Because Karen's brother-in-law is coming in on Christmas Eve. So? Why does that mean we can't have our celebration on the 24th? He can join us.
Why did all of them respect my Daddy enough (or fear him) to ALWAYS, no matter what, celebrate on the 24th, but they don't worry about me, now the Matriarch of the family, to continue our tradition?
Of course, Jennifer will be no where around here. They are going to Disney World. That's fine. She wasn't here last year, even though she promised they would be. They were moving and for some reason, couldn't take 2 hours out of their day to celebrate with the rest of us.
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If I didn't know it would end my life, I'd like to write a note and commit suicide somewhere between Thanksgiving and Christmas. It would take some good planning on my part because I might not be found for three weeks, but.........................fill them with guilt. Spoil their holidays for the rest of their lives. HAH!
Or--if I could afford it, not tell a single soul and book a flight on Thanksgiving day and return on December 28th. Better yet! HAH! Of course, I have my pets to worry about. I'd have to leave them in a pet hotel for that long and I know, they wouldn't like that one bit. Poor Buddy might die of loneliness, although Maggie would be okay.
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I am reasonable--at face value. None of them will ever know exactly how I feel Maybe they should? Maybe I should rant and rave, like an angry, cranky, senile old woman? Would it really matter? They don't exactly include me in much of their life anyway.
Why don't I? Because all of my life I was told to be compliant. Don't make waves. Don't complain. Smile and be nice, no matter what. Which is the very same reason I ended up in terrible relationships and marriages.
I would like to be more like a Jewish/Italian/Polish mother who would voice her opinion--loudly--and yell, "WHAT do you MEAN. The day BEFORE.? The day AFTER? NO more of this STUPID talk!! We meet on THE DAY and that's ALL there is about it!"
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I wonder. Do any of my older blog buddies feel they are just in the way at times? Only invited or considered when it is convenient for "them"?
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Perhaps if I climbed up on my roof and started yelling about TRADITION, the news cameras would come and my kids might see me on the news and know that I am sad and angry. Most probably, the police would come and take me to the Nursing Home--which wouldn't be all that bad. At least there would be a reason why I would be alone at Thanksgiving and Christmas!
Tradition! I am big on tradition. Every Thanksgiving our entire family met on that day. Not the day before, not the day after--ON THAT DAY! There were no excuses. We KNEW we would be together ON THAT DAY! After my Mother died, I kept up the Tradition. When my kids got older and married, they would come to the house--the Grandmother's house for dinner--1:00 precisely, and then later in the afternoon, go visit their in-laws.
Christmas Eve--always at my Dad's. 7:00 pm, then changed to 4:00 pm because Karen and Mark and their kids had to leave to go to Mass with his parents. Then changed up to 1:00, so my son and his girlfriend could go to her Mom's, because her Mom always had Christmas Eve in the evening.
After Daddy died, we still kept the same tradition. At the ancestor's house where my sister now lived. We accommodated Mark and Cindy and the Catholic Rivard's. We had our Christmas Eve at noon then.
I didn't like it, but I kept my smile pasted on my face and was joyful. At least, once a year we all were together.
===================
Now, I find out that this year my oldest grandson will be hosting Thanksgiving at his house. Near Toledo--some 100 miles away. "You could ride down with us, Mom," said Karen, "but we will be getting home late and you can't drive after dark."
My sister and her hubs are going to her son's house--some 65 miles away. I could ride up with them, but would have to drive from their house, home, in the dark.
====================
I also have found out, Christmas Eve will be celebrated on the 23rd. Why? Because Karen's brother-in-law is coming in on Christmas Eve. So? Why does that mean we can't have our celebration on the 24th? He can join us.
Why did all of them respect my Daddy enough (or fear him) to ALWAYS, no matter what, celebrate on the 24th, but they don't worry about me, now the Matriarch of the family, to continue our tradition?
Of course, Jennifer will be no where around here. They are going to Disney World. That's fine. She wasn't here last year, even though she promised they would be. They were moving and for some reason, couldn't take 2 hours out of their day to celebrate with the rest of us.
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If I didn't know it would end my life, I'd like to write a note and commit suicide somewhere between Thanksgiving and Christmas. It would take some good planning on my part because I might not be found for three weeks, but.........................fill them with guilt. Spoil their holidays for the rest of their lives. HAH!
Or--if I could afford it, not tell a single soul and book a flight on Thanksgiving day and return on December 28th. Better yet! HAH! Of course, I have my pets to worry about. I'd have to leave them in a pet hotel for that long and I know, they wouldn't like that one bit. Poor Buddy might die of loneliness, although Maggie would be okay.
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I am reasonable--at face value. None of them will ever know exactly how I feel Maybe they should? Maybe I should rant and rave, like an angry, cranky, senile old woman? Would it really matter? They don't exactly include me in much of their life anyway.
Why don't I? Because all of my life I was told to be compliant. Don't make waves. Don't complain. Smile and be nice, no matter what. Which is the very same reason I ended up in terrible relationships and marriages.
I would like to be more like a Jewish/Italian/Polish mother who would voice her opinion--loudly--and yell, "WHAT do you MEAN. The day BEFORE.? The day AFTER? NO more of this STUPID talk!! We meet on THE DAY and that's ALL there is about it!"
=====================
I wonder. Do any of my older blog buddies feel they are just in the way at times? Only invited or considered when it is convenient for "them"?
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Tradition, tradition! Tradition!
Friday, November 11, 2016
A long observation---
I was shocked more than once, these past few days.
My family (ancestor's) have been Republican since they got off the boat. "The Republican Party. The Party that freed the slaves and brought equality for all." After all, wasn't there a photo of Abraham Lincoln on the top of the ballot?
One of my great grand father's, higher up on our tree, (1888) was nearly on his death bed, but on election day, he hired a small flat bed wagon to come to his house. They put a feather tick on the wagon, lifted him up and laid him on the "bed" and took him, "over heavily rutted roads," to the voting house, where they had to carry him in on a chair and he made his "X" for Benjamin Harrison--our 23rd President. All of this was written in his obituary, when he died in March 1889.
We never discussed politics in my family. I had no clue nor was I aware of who my grand parents and parents voted for or if they even voted. When I was 9, President Truman, running for re-election came to a nearby town on a whistle-stop. For some reason, our school buses loaded all students into buses and took us to that town. I can still see him and Bess standing on the platform on the back of that train. Our teacher had told us it was an honor to see the President and we were to behave--and we did.
I only got a glimpse of my family's political leanings when, the day after that election, my grandma said, "Start hoarding sugar. We'll be going to war soon." So, of course, the next day in school, I reported her statement. My 4th grade teacher said, "Now stop that kind of talk," and one of my friends wouldn't speak to me for days. I still had no clue. I guess I thought everyone felt the same way my grandma did.
We got a TV when I was 12--purposefully for my Dad to watch the Red Wings hockey championship games. There was another election the next fall and I remember, laying on the cold living room floor watching the conventions. I was fascinated. I had the most wonderful hologram sort of "I like Ike", button. If you turned it one way, it showed his photo, turned to the right a bit, it showed the words. Of course, my whole family was voting for Ike. My uncle had served with him in WWII and spoke of him often. I thought we were related to him.
My first time voting, I was scared stiff. You had to make your "X" on a very long paper ballot and fold it up just right, with a corner bent over. If not folded just right, the clerk would throw it away. I remember shaking so hard when I went to make that "X". My two little children sat on chairs in the room, scared to move or make a sound. This was very important stuff going on.
I was terribly upset that night when the TV revealed Kennedy had won. I thought he was a mob influenced, rat. Probably going to make all of us convert to Catholicism. His father was a rum-runner, a mobster. He had stuffed the ballot box in Chicago with dead people's ballots and the like. I thought we were doomed! Still, I cried as hard as anyone when he was killed--even though I still didn't like him.
So--again on my next election, I took a stand. I had power! Johnson and Goldwater. I couldn't vote for either one. Goldwater had stated he wanted to send more troops to Viet Nam and end the war. Johnson had said "I will not send anymore of your boys to war." I couldn't vote for the war-monger, but Johnson was a Democrat and I couldn't, in good conscience, vote for him. I left the top part of my ballot unmarked and voted for all Republicans on the "down ballot."
I felt the same way this year. How could I vote for either one?
My husband too, although he worked for GM and was thus a Union member, also was a Republican and his family had been, since the beginning of time. Our kids grew up hearing us talk about when and who we would vote for. Although the year husband voted for Wallace nearly caused our divorce!
My family were quiet Republicans. No signs in our yards. No discussions with friends or neighbors. As my Daddy always said, "It's no body's business. That's why we have a secret ballot."
When it came time for my kids to vote, they were so proud. At that time, I had no idea who they voted for and didn't ask. It was none of my business. I assumed they voted Republican.
Over the years I have found that my son has consistently voted for the Green Party--whatever that is. Pammie is a Democrat. Karen has remained on the Republican side. Jennifer, being influenced by her Liberal professors in college and studying for a degree in Social Work, voted for Clinton. Four years later, she voted for Bush. I have no clue who she voted for this year, probably Hillary, which means she and her husband cancelled out each other's ballot.
The shock came this year when my oldest grand daughter stated on FB Wednesday morning, how frightened she was for her baby daughter. I guess that can only mean one thing? She must have voted for Hillary. Comments I heard her youngest sister make on FB, I guess my ballerina Madeleine voted Democratic in her first election too. I know their two brothers voted Republican. I can imagine Karen is shaking her head more than I am.
Then I saw a post by my sister's daughter-in-law. My sister's son is Township Supervisor and works for the Republican Senate at our Capitol in Lansing. I was shocked by the rant his wife had posted. She was angry and sad and couldn't see how "Trump could get 59 million people to vote for him. What is wrong with this country?" I imagine there might be some tense moments in that household.
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It is strange to me how my family has changed--just in the last 25 years. Once a pure, white, conservative, Protestant group for 20+ generations, we are a melting pot in our own right. I can only imagine how my father and grand parents would cringe.
As for me? I kind of enjoy watching the changes and I am awfully glad we have a family that respects each other enough to love and support each others beliefs and choices.
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If my kids/family are diverse, it's my fault. As I think about it now--shortly after my Mother died and I fully realized how critical and judgmental my father had been and still was, and how much I had relied on my Mother's love to keep me going and now-that was gone. She was the one I had always gone to for advice and I felt lost after her death. What if I suddenly died and my children were only influenced by their father and grand father?
I got this crazy idea-- I wanted my children to grow up independent of my viewpoint. I didn't want them to have to rely on me for their decisions. I gave them a lot more leeway in their choices--reminding them there would be good or bad consequences of those choices, so think hard before making a decision.
To my husband's dislike, I also talked more openly at the supper table about how differing opinions on a subject are okay. We might not agree, but each person is allowed to have and speak their opinion, if they want too. Be respectful of everyone, no matter color or belief. Be helpful and kind to everyone you meet in every situation. Be honest and trustworthy so people know your word and handshake is as good as a written contract. Be polite and considerate and loyal to friends and family.
Even at 14, 12 & 10, they took it to heart, which meant, when my son let his hair grow past his shoulders and he looked like an idiot--I kept my mouth shut. When he got suspended from school, I let him take the consequences. When he got arrested for drinking and driving and spent 30 days in the county jail, I did not bail him out.
When my Pammie started bringing home not only stray animals, but stray kids because she wanted to show them what a "normal" family was like, I welcomed them to our supper table and talked with them about their problems and coaxed them to go home and talk it out with their parents. When between her Junior and Senior year of high school, she stated she was going to hitch-hike to California to visit her brother, I cringed and coaxed her Dad to let me buy her a round-trip plane ticket.
When my sweet, Bible school teaching, deep down Methodist church involved, deeply religious Karen announced she was engaged to a Catholic boy--I may have stumbled half a step, but immediately turned to show her my joy and love and prepare for the wedding.
When my Jennifer stood up in front of her college classmates, being given her award for Outstanding Student and proclaimed to the world and her family that she was "proud to be called a flaming Liberal" and watched my Dad, sitting in front of me, almost fall out of his seat, I smiled and applauded.
Has it been difficult for me at times? Oh, heck yes!!, but if I wanted to get away from my father's, "My way is the only way and if you don't behave to my way of thinking, I want nothing to do with you", point of view, I had to put my money where my mouth was and stop that from going on to my kids generation.
So now--unlike all the generations before us, my family consists of Rabid Republicans, Flaming Liberals, Moderates, and 3rd party lovers. Pro-life, Pro-abortion, Gun toting, gun hating, death penalty, anti-death penalty, Protestants, Catholics, Jews, Agnostics and undecideds. Germans, Hispanics, Irish and Hebrews. Union members, Farmers, Attorneys, Doctors, Nurses, Social Workers, Ministers. Poor and rich.
And---I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!
My family (ancestor's) have been Republican since they got off the boat. "The Republican Party. The Party that freed the slaves and brought equality for all." After all, wasn't there a photo of Abraham Lincoln on the top of the ballot?
One of my great grand father's, higher up on our tree, (1888) was nearly on his death bed, but on election day, he hired a small flat bed wagon to come to his house. They put a feather tick on the wagon, lifted him up and laid him on the "bed" and took him, "over heavily rutted roads," to the voting house, where they had to carry him in on a chair and he made his "X" for Benjamin Harrison--our 23rd President. All of this was written in his obituary, when he died in March 1889.
We never discussed politics in my family. I had no clue nor was I aware of who my grand parents and parents voted for or if they even voted. When I was 9, President Truman, running for re-election came to a nearby town on a whistle-stop. For some reason, our school buses loaded all students into buses and took us to that town. I can still see him and Bess standing on the platform on the back of that train. Our teacher had told us it was an honor to see the President and we were to behave--and we did.
I only got a glimpse of my family's political leanings when, the day after that election, my grandma said, "Start hoarding sugar. We'll be going to war soon." So, of course, the next day in school, I reported her statement. My 4th grade teacher said, "Now stop that kind of talk," and one of my friends wouldn't speak to me for days. I still had no clue. I guess I thought everyone felt the same way my grandma did.
We got a TV when I was 12--purposefully for my Dad to watch the Red Wings hockey championship games. There was another election the next fall and I remember, laying on the cold living room floor watching the conventions. I was fascinated. I had the most wonderful hologram sort of "I like Ike", button. If you turned it one way, it showed his photo, turned to the right a bit, it showed the words. Of course, my whole family was voting for Ike. My uncle had served with him in WWII and spoke of him often. I thought we were related to him.
My first time voting, I was scared stiff. You had to make your "X" on a very long paper ballot and fold it up just right, with a corner bent over. If not folded just right, the clerk would throw it away. I remember shaking so hard when I went to make that "X". My two little children sat on chairs in the room, scared to move or make a sound. This was very important stuff going on.
I was terribly upset that night when the TV revealed Kennedy had won. I thought he was a mob influenced, rat. Probably going to make all of us convert to Catholicism. His father was a rum-runner, a mobster. He had stuffed the ballot box in Chicago with dead people's ballots and the like. I thought we were doomed! Still, I cried as hard as anyone when he was killed--even though I still didn't like him.
So--again on my next election, I took a stand. I had power! Johnson and Goldwater. I couldn't vote for either one. Goldwater had stated he wanted to send more troops to Viet Nam and end the war. Johnson had said "I will not send anymore of your boys to war." I couldn't vote for the war-monger, but Johnson was a Democrat and I couldn't, in good conscience, vote for him. I left the top part of my ballot unmarked and voted for all Republicans on the "down ballot."
I felt the same way this year. How could I vote for either one?
My husband too, although he worked for GM and was thus a Union member, also was a Republican and his family had been, since the beginning of time. Our kids grew up hearing us talk about when and who we would vote for. Although the year husband voted for Wallace nearly caused our divorce!
My family were quiet Republicans. No signs in our yards. No discussions with friends or neighbors. As my Daddy always said, "It's no body's business. That's why we have a secret ballot."
When it came time for my kids to vote, they were so proud. At that time, I had no idea who they voted for and didn't ask. It was none of my business. I assumed they voted Republican.
Over the years I have found that my son has consistently voted for the Green Party--whatever that is. Pammie is a Democrat. Karen has remained on the Republican side. Jennifer, being influenced by her Liberal professors in college and studying for a degree in Social Work, voted for Clinton. Four years later, she voted for Bush. I have no clue who she voted for this year, probably Hillary, which means she and her husband cancelled out each other's ballot.
The shock came this year when my oldest grand daughter stated on FB Wednesday morning, how frightened she was for her baby daughter. I guess that can only mean one thing? She must have voted for Hillary. Comments I heard her youngest sister make on FB, I guess my ballerina Madeleine voted Democratic in her first election too. I know their two brothers voted Republican. I can imagine Karen is shaking her head more than I am.
Then I saw a post by my sister's daughter-in-law. My sister's son is Township Supervisor and works for the Republican Senate at our Capitol in Lansing. I was shocked by the rant his wife had posted. She was angry and sad and couldn't see how "Trump could get 59 million people to vote for him. What is wrong with this country?" I imagine there might be some tense moments in that household.
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It is strange to me how my family has changed--just in the last 25 years. Once a pure, white, conservative, Protestant group for 20+ generations, we are a melting pot in our own right. I can only imagine how my father and grand parents would cringe.
As for me? I kind of enjoy watching the changes and I am awfully glad we have a family that respects each other enough to love and support each others beliefs and choices.
===========
If my kids/family are diverse, it's my fault. As I think about it now--shortly after my Mother died and I fully realized how critical and judgmental my father had been and still was, and how much I had relied on my Mother's love to keep me going and now-that was gone. She was the one I had always gone to for advice and I felt lost after her death. What if I suddenly died and my children were only influenced by their father and grand father?
I got this crazy idea-- I wanted my children to grow up independent of my viewpoint. I didn't want them to have to rely on me for their decisions. I gave them a lot more leeway in their choices--reminding them there would be good or bad consequences of those choices, so think hard before making a decision.
To my husband's dislike, I also talked more openly at the supper table about how differing opinions on a subject are okay. We might not agree, but each person is allowed to have and speak their opinion, if they want too. Be respectful of everyone, no matter color or belief. Be helpful and kind to everyone you meet in every situation. Be honest and trustworthy so people know your word and handshake is as good as a written contract. Be polite and considerate and loyal to friends and family.
Even at 14, 12 & 10, they took it to heart, which meant, when my son let his hair grow past his shoulders and he looked like an idiot--I kept my mouth shut. When he got suspended from school, I let him take the consequences. When he got arrested for drinking and driving and spent 30 days in the county jail, I did not bail him out.
When my Pammie started bringing home not only stray animals, but stray kids because she wanted to show them what a "normal" family was like, I welcomed them to our supper table and talked with them about their problems and coaxed them to go home and talk it out with their parents. When between her Junior and Senior year of high school, she stated she was going to hitch-hike to California to visit her brother, I cringed and coaxed her Dad to let me buy her a round-trip plane ticket.
When my sweet, Bible school teaching, deep down Methodist church involved, deeply religious Karen announced she was engaged to a Catholic boy--I may have stumbled half a step, but immediately turned to show her my joy and love and prepare for the wedding.
When my Jennifer stood up in front of her college classmates, being given her award for Outstanding Student and proclaimed to the world and her family that she was "proud to be called a flaming Liberal" and watched my Dad, sitting in front of me, almost fall out of his seat, I smiled and applauded.
Has it been difficult for me at times? Oh, heck yes!!, but if I wanted to get away from my father's, "My way is the only way and if you don't behave to my way of thinking, I want nothing to do with you", point of view, I had to put my money where my mouth was and stop that from going on to my kids generation.
So now--unlike all the generations before us, my family consists of Rabid Republicans, Flaming Liberals, Moderates, and 3rd party lovers. Pro-life, Pro-abortion, Gun toting, gun hating, death penalty, anti-death penalty, Protestants, Catholics, Jews, Agnostics and undecideds. Germans, Hispanics, Irish and Hebrews. Union members, Farmers, Attorneys, Doctors, Nurses, Social Workers, Ministers. Poor and rich.
And---I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, November 9, 2016
What?
Well, that was a stunner, wasn't it? No matter which candidate you voted for, I think we are all in a state of shock today.
I had to laugh at the pollsters and the NBC TV crew. I thought Chuck Todd was going to have a heart attack, when his board started turning Red. The thing of it is--Exit Polls mean not one dang thing. Democrats are likely to stop and take the Poll and talk about their candidate. Republicans push on by and say, "Sorry--I have other things to do." As for the pollsters? When have they ever come out into the rural areas and asked? They stick in the cities and think they are getting a "real" test of what is going on in our country.
Even my State of Michigan went Red--eventually. First time in 30+ years, I think. The Silent Majority? 52% of white women voted for Trump--that's unreal.
In my opinion, I don't think this election had anything to do with abortion, women's rights, immigration, or gun rights. I don't think the vote was against Hillary as much as it was more of a message to our government. People were just sick and tired and angry about how life altering things have been rammed down their throats and into their daily lives by the present President. If he didn't get his way via congressional vote, he wrote an Executive Order. People didn't like that. President Bush did it too and angered a lot of people.
Congress hasn't been very representative of how their constituents feel on either side of the aisle and that has angered people too. Apparently last night, 59 million people told the government just how they feel.
One thing that makes me sad is our race relations. I thought the present President would have helped, but it seemed he did not. Many African American thinkers have stated that he just made it worse by giving them a feeling of entitlement to do whatever they wanted without reprisal. Now--I don't know if that is true, but it sure felt that way to me. I do know, the present President has not helped their life situation. Black on black crime is at a higher rate than ever. Blacks are living in object poverty, more than ever. He just didn't help them with his Hope and Change method. I don't think I have ever seen it this bad--even back in the 60's and 70's with the race riots.
I have a dear friend on Face Book. A friend of my daughter Karen. She is a Liberal and posted the most vile, hateful post I have seen in the last 18 months. Now, "they" tell me that the Trump supporters are posting vile and nasty stuff--I did not see that--not on my FB page. I did see a lot of Liberals seething and angry and striking out. Which I did not expect. Where is the tolerance they preach? Even my grand daughter posted a negative status. Oh well--this too shall pass.
Our society has become nasty, vile and immoral over the last two decades and I don't ever see it getting any better--when you have the likes of Miley Cyrus strutting around the stage with a giant penis strapped to the front of her. When you have the likes of JayeZ and the other nasty thug rappers spewing out their hatred. When you see those kinds of people supporting a candidate? That doesn't help.
I do know one thing for sure--the Democratic Party is not like the one I've known and the Republican Party? It has nothing that looks familiar to the one I grew up with. Scary stuff all around.
In the long-run, it is what it is. To my Liberal friends? If I have managed to live these past 8 years with a man in the White House that I disliked more than any other President, then you can manage to live the next 4 years with this guy. Unless of course, as one of my Liberal friends stated this morning, "Trump is a dead man", then we will have Mike Pence and he's a really good guy--IMHO.
As I said before the election--God help us all.
I had to laugh at the pollsters and the NBC TV crew. I thought Chuck Todd was going to have a heart attack, when his board started turning Red. The thing of it is--Exit Polls mean not one dang thing. Democrats are likely to stop and take the Poll and talk about their candidate. Republicans push on by and say, "Sorry--I have other things to do." As for the pollsters? When have they ever come out into the rural areas and asked? They stick in the cities and think they are getting a "real" test of what is going on in our country.
Even my State of Michigan went Red--eventually. First time in 30+ years, I think. The Silent Majority? 52% of white women voted for Trump--that's unreal.
In my opinion, I don't think this election had anything to do with abortion, women's rights, immigration, or gun rights. I don't think the vote was against Hillary as much as it was more of a message to our government. People were just sick and tired and angry about how life altering things have been rammed down their throats and into their daily lives by the present President. If he didn't get his way via congressional vote, he wrote an Executive Order. People didn't like that. President Bush did it too and angered a lot of people.
Congress hasn't been very representative of how their constituents feel on either side of the aisle and that has angered people too. Apparently last night, 59 million people told the government just how they feel.
One thing that makes me sad is our race relations. I thought the present President would have helped, but it seemed he did not. Many African American thinkers have stated that he just made it worse by giving them a feeling of entitlement to do whatever they wanted without reprisal. Now--I don't know if that is true, but it sure felt that way to me. I do know, the present President has not helped their life situation. Black on black crime is at a higher rate than ever. Blacks are living in object poverty, more than ever. He just didn't help them with his Hope and Change method. I don't think I have ever seen it this bad--even back in the 60's and 70's with the race riots.
I have a dear friend on Face Book. A friend of my daughter Karen. She is a Liberal and posted the most vile, hateful post I have seen in the last 18 months. Now, "they" tell me that the Trump supporters are posting vile and nasty stuff--I did not see that--not on my FB page. I did see a lot of Liberals seething and angry and striking out. Which I did not expect. Where is the tolerance they preach? Even my grand daughter posted a negative status. Oh well--this too shall pass.
Our society has become nasty, vile and immoral over the last two decades and I don't ever see it getting any better--when you have the likes of Miley Cyrus strutting around the stage with a giant penis strapped to the front of her. When you have the likes of JayeZ and the other nasty thug rappers spewing out their hatred. When you see those kinds of people supporting a candidate? That doesn't help.
I do know one thing for sure--the Democratic Party is not like the one I've known and the Republican Party? It has nothing that looks familiar to the one I grew up with. Scary stuff all around.
In the long-run, it is what it is. To my Liberal friends? If I have managed to live these past 8 years with a man in the White House that I disliked more than any other President, then you can manage to live the next 4 years with this guy. Unless of course, as one of my Liberal friends stated this morning, "Trump is a dead man", then we will have Mike Pence and he's a really good guy--IMHO.
As I said before the election--God help us all.
Monday, November 7, 2016
The Weekend--
Friday--the leaves in my driveway were ankle deep. My car was covered, so I drove uptown, to blow the leaves off and parked on the other side of the drive.
This morning, my Lawn Guy came to take care of the leaves. Even while he was blowing them into piles and filling bags for pick-up tomorrow, the Maple trees were shedding more leaves. I guess I better buy more yard waste bags because this chore isn't completed. :-)
Soon, the spot I had left, was covered.
Saturday--Pammie picked me up and we drove down to Karen's. Helene and the Baby were there.
I got the quilt done Thursday night.
I have never seen an 11 day old baby so alert. Maybe because she was delivered C-section and didn't have to go through all that trauma?
Great Aunt Pammie, Baby Della and Grandma Karen
4 Generations!!
Sunday--the kids and I enjoying a nice quiet evening.
I don't ever remember having 69 degrees and sunny on November 7th. What glorious weather we are having--unusual for Michigan this time of year.
Tomorrow is the big day. Thankfully, after 18 torturous months of campaigning. Suddenly, today, Michigan, who has been a Blue State for a generation is tilting toward the Republican side and becoming a Battle-Ground State.
I will be glad when this is all over. It has made many of us depressed, angry, confused and tired--just plain tired. No matter which of the Devious Duo wins, Wednesday will still arrive and life will go on.
Thursday, November 3, 2016
Floating room divider........
Quirky, to say the least, but...........
"How did you ever come up with that!"
"I don't know. It appeared in my head one morning when I woke up."
"I had a bet with myself that you would hang a sheer, blue curtain there."
"No! Ugh!"
"That looks like something Mother would do."
"Kinda. Doesn't it."
"I think you are channeling Mother."
"I doubt that. Mother and you have the decorating gene, me not so much. I can change a car tire or milk a cow, but I sure don't know how to decorate."
"Well, this is very cool. It does stop my eye from looking directly down the hall. That is so unique. I am really proud of you!"
Sister Susan called me 2 hours later and said, "You know what? An arrangement like that would look great in the corner of a room. I've been thinking about it all afternoon!"
when my sister walked in and saw it, she actually squealed.
"How did you ever come up with that!"
"I don't know. It appeared in my head one morning when I woke up."
"I had a bet with myself that you would hang a sheer, blue curtain there."
"No! Ugh!"
"That looks like something Mother would do."
"Kinda. Doesn't it."
"I think you are channeling Mother."
"I doubt that. Mother and you have the decorating gene, me not so much. I can change a car tire or milk a cow, but I sure don't know how to decorate."
"Well, this is very cool. It does stop my eye from looking directly down the hall. That is so unique. I am really proud of you!"
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