Country Roads

The high temperature today was:  79 degrees

The humidity today was:  42%

Sunny, breezy--perfect

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"Country roads, take me home, to the place I belong"..........................today, I took a quick trip up to the place "I belong"--will be some day--back home.  I wondered how this would make me feel.

I walked up slowly--thinking it might creep me out, but it didn't.

It is so new and clean and bright.

I had my design similar to my bachelor uncles, because...

He and I are book ends for my parents.

My sister and brother in law, will be to the left, and.....

Freddy down from them.  I forgot to take his doggie statue with me to place on the corner--

that is the whole reason I got him a flat stone!!

Tootz, his dog, whose ashes will be buried with Fred.

She will rest on the upper right hand corner of his marker.

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So--I have put in my advanced reservation in the "family" green space--until the Son comes in the east and the trumpet sounds!  

After I left the cemetery, I drove on over to Susan and Chuck's farm.  Had a new Debbie Macomber book to give her--that I just received.  I give all my brand new books to my sister to read first.  She gets to open the mailing carton, take out the book, break the spine and read it.  Then she gives it back to me, I pass it on to Pearl and Dar and THEN, I read it.  I am so far behind in my reading, that I am about 4 books behind all of them.

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I only stayed at Susie's for half an hour--they were getting ready to go into town to get roofing shingles to put on the "ice house", which they retained for Susan's garden shed--the cedar shake shingles are all rotten.  She had been painting it barn red all weekend.  When I left their drive, instead of turning left and heading up to the Little House On The Corner and the main road to get home, I turned right and came home the back way--and I mean, the back way.   No pavement or tarvia has ever touched these back roads--gravel for at least 6 miles, but nice and hard packed.

and narrow.....

and large farms.  Nowadays, you gotta go big or you won't make a living as a farmer.

I stopped at a road side table with fresh veggies on it.  The Honor System--you take what you want and leave what you think is a fair price.  I got two tomatoes and an ear of sweet corn and left five bucks!  I think that was a fair price and YOWSER--were they delicious.  You CANNOT get that veggies that fresh in your grocery store--I don't care how fancy the place is.  This stuff was just picked!!!

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I feel bad about ranting about Pearl!  Wish I hadn't!  Makes me sound like a snob.  I too have bought things and made wrong decisions that cost me money.  I don't think Pearl is dumb enough to "loan" $10K to a husband who beat her and then wouldn't pay her back--I had to go through bankruptcy too!!  HOWEVER--this is what frustrates me so much.  SHE asks for advice.  Merle has even asked my opinion from time to time.  I tell them what I know about finance rates, about checking the small print--about, "are you sure this will save you money?"  They want me to research things for them and then, they go with just the opposite.  Like the gas log they bought last year.

I first asked them why they wanted one.  "To save money on our gas bill."  Then I researched the BBB and websites and found the most reputable dealer in this area and also--the dealer with the worse reviews.  They went with the worse dealer because he was $50.00 cheaper.  The gas log has been a huge failure!!!  As I told them, when the log is burning, it is pulling in the furnace heated air from the room and taking it up the chimney.  Their gas bill was around $60.00--after the gas log, it was at least $90.  AND it is so near their thermostat (which I also pointed out) that the thermostat won't come on and the rest of their house is freezing, which causes them to burn the gas log all the time, which causes the thermostat not to come on, which.................................well, you get the idea.  THEN--when the gas log malfunctioned, the dealer would not stand behind his "spoken warranty" and they had to lay out another $150.00 to get it fixed--by the FRIST dealer I recommended AND because it was installed incorrectly, the heat has "melted" all the varnish off their mantle!!  BUT---Pearl got it into her head one day that she wanted a gas log and...Merle just went along.

SO--last night when she called and told me she couldn't access her e-mail--"even after you checked all the account information and told me it was correct!" and wanted to know what she should do--I told her to call Comcast.  "But I won't know how to explain it to them!"

"Sure you will.  Just tell the person that answers that you are getting an error message and cannot connect to the server.   That person will walk you through each step to make sure everything is set up all right."

"I have to call AT&T first and tell them to unhook me.  Maybe the two servers are fighting over which one will work."

"No--that isn't necessary.  When Comcast was hooked up, AT&T was automatically disabled.  BUT--now don't be surprised if the Comcast person tells you that your computer isn't able to handle it.  Remember...we talked about six months ago, when you were having trouble accessing anything--that your computer needs more memory--or you need a new computer..remember?"

"Yes.  I should have bought a new computer instead of this stupid carpeting!"

Oy Vey!!

I called her when I got home this afternoon to see if she had called Comcast and she said, "I called AT&T first and they told me my hook-up with them had been cancelled.  Then I called Comcast and the lady there walked me through the entire set-up of my account.  Everything was correct.  She told me I probably don't have enough memory in the computer to run the high speed."

So--now, as with Dar--I am no longer going to be Pearl's "teacher" anymore.  If they want to know something or want to research something--I will show her how.  That's it!!!  GOOGLE IT, BABY!!!

She is going to the doctor tomorrow--MY doctor.  I hope she likes him or it will be all my fault!!

When will I ever learn?  

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After my first attempt at selling all my Cedar Cove books on e-bay, I have a new box full going up for sale.  All of Nicholas Sparks books.  Then---it will be all of the (Father Tim) Mitford Series.  I keep books--thinking I surely will read them again, but never do.  So--another way of cleaning out AND making a bit of money.  

My last sale, went to pay for a figurine I found on e-bay that I have been searching for since 1985.  It is part of a pair of figurines I purchased back then---but I could only afford to buy one, in 1980.  Then in 1985, I went back to the same store to get the other one and of course, they had quit making them.  They are made by Francis Hook and will have Jennifer's name on both, as she was with me when I bought the first one and has loved it forever.  

They are called "Beach Buddies".

It cost $50.00 back in 1980--when I had lots of money.

Sorry about the distortion--I got the pix off the seller's site.

It cost half price.  YAY

Both are numbered on the bottom with the year produced and

Francis Hook's name from her "Child's World" collection.

DUH!!!

Today's high temperature was:  78 degrees

Today's humidity was:  46%

Sunny, once again.

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Oh Dear--I use to be so smart, so organized, so in the know--now I have trouble remembering what day it is and what I want to do!  I was just about to shut down this computer when I realized, I had not posted anything for today--and I do try and post something every day.  

My Friends--you cannot know what your comments meant to me today!!!  A great lift to my spirit.  I thought I was going totally " 'round the bend", with all this death thinking and preparation and aging and what to do, what to do...and then I read your comments and find out--I'm not quite as abnormal or weird as I thought!!!  I really don't have any people that I would share those thoughts with.  My sister wouldn't understand--too young.  Pearl would just shake her head and say, "You're weird!" and most of my long-time friends--well, I don't even want them to know how I think at times.  So---once again---you have saved me...made me smile...and lightened my mind all day today!!!! Once again, thank you so much!!!

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I got up on time and made it to church early, LOL.  We have a lot of construction zones in this area and detours.  I have a special kind of back way I go to church to avoid them.  Today--our pastor continued his story on detours--mostly he means spiritual detours--or emotional ones---and how, even if we think we are going through them alone--God is there working, making the "path", getting us through.  

I got out of church and turned to come home the usual way and--"Oh Oh".  A this street is closed, sign was up.  Not only does the town of Howell have a Farmer's Market every Sunday, all summer long, which is why I got a back way to avoid that, but this weekend, they are having a fruity festival.  Actually called--The Howell Melon Festival!!!  Ta Dah!

They have street vendors and parades and so, not only is the main street through town blocked, but a lot of side streets.  

Alas and alack--so I turned left and proceeded down a couple blocks and turned right again and...OOPS--that road didn't go all the way through.  Turned around and came back to the street I was on, and finally decided to go on north to the semi-large highway and then drive on that up to the road I mainly take when I go to Byron.  Of course--there is a HUGE construction zone on the corner of my road home and this road--on the corner--by the Wal-Mart--where I had to go to get ONE stupid prescription!!!They are putting in an expressway interchange in this area--which is needed, but still.....................

It was 12:30 by now--church got out at 11:45.  I got my prescription and decided to look around a bit.  Diet Pepsi--on sale--$1.00 for a 2 Litre--YOWSER!  and while in that area:  milk, water, ice tea, bottled water. Something that would work for "bumpers" on the lid of the big box because, YES--I have already smashed my fingers.    I couldn't find them, so guess what I used?  Those felt tipped thingies you put on the legs of a kitchen chair so it will slide around.  I ran a small bead of Elmer's Glue around each one, stuck it to each end of the lid and VOILA--they are black with dark brown felt so they don't even show.  Oh, I know, I have compromised the "vintageness" of the box, no doubt, but.........

When I got home,  which was now 1:45, I had to unload and carry in, 5 bags with 2 jugs of Pepsi per, 2 gallons of ice tea (unsweetened, please), a gallon of water for the cats, a gallon of milk and a 12 pack of bottled water.--plus a few other bags that contained, celery, cake, floor cleaner, new strainers for the kitchen sink, a new aerator for the kitchen faucet (which did not fit right) and other sundry products--$91.00 worth.  BUT if I had bought everything at the Rich People's store, it would have been a hundred and a half probably.

My back and hips were killing me, but every trip I made out and in, I kept saying, "Thank you, God" because...I am so blessed that I can tote all that stuff in because, just 9 short months ago---I couldn't!!!!!

So I am through my "detour" called physical infirmity,   I am still on the detour called grief, but mainly now, I am on the detour called "No Money"--which over the years, has turned into a familiar road that is constantly under construction.

I went down to Pearl's and tried to get her e-mail set up.  She just had cable installed and her e-mail didn't work.  I looked how my account is set up, as I have the same cable company, and did it on hers, but---nope.  I told her to call Comcast tomorrow and they will help her get it going.

Oh--I gotta tell you--gossip.  Remember a few months back when I told you Pearl had ATT for her internet connection and her TV.  ATT told her if she bundled in her home phone, they would give her faster internet at a lower price--remember that?  They had no home phone--they both have cell phones, but to get faster internet, she went out and BOUGHT A PHONE--which she never uses AND the internet was no faster then before.

So--finally last week, their contract was up and I convinced them to go with cable--Comcast--like most of us have around here.  I told her that she didn't have to put her phone on it, because they don't use the phone.  I told her NOT to get HD, as it is ten dollars more a month and I don't have it and the lady at Comcast told me NOT to get it---unless I watch a lot of movies On Demand, as the difference in the picture is no different then just having digital.  

I found out yesterday--not only did she get Comcast--YAY, but she also bundled the phone, they don't use and is always turned off,  AND got HD.  $140.00 a month and I pay, $115.00!

So, tonight she calls and says, "Did you know that Debbie Macomber show we watched last night is on tonight too?"

"Yes, it's a re-run of last night's show."

"No it's not!  It's on channel 378 instead of 137.  I think it might be the ones I've missed."

"Channel 378 is the SAME as channel 137, except 378 is HD."

So she called back in 30 minutes and I said, "Did you watch it on HD?"

"Yes--it was the same one we watched last night on 137."

"Did you notice a better, clearer, sharper picture on HD?"

"No--am I suppose too?"

ARGGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So apparently she gets her channel line-up and starts going through the HD channels and the name of the channel and on almost everyone, I say, "Yes--that is also on digital (whatever) channel too."

"Then...why did I get HD hook-up?"

"I don't know, Pearl.  Why did you?"

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I get so frustrated with her--I say her, because if she wants it, Merle doesn't argue and she goes off willy-nilly and ends up paying a lot of money for nothing.  They grew up in the same time period I did.  They went to a small school--but so did I.  They act like they don't have any brains!!!  All their lives!!!

All of a sudden, one day, she decided that she wanted new carpeting.  "The pad under this one is so thin, I feel like I am walking on a bare floor."  At first, she wanted hard wood flooring in the living room.  I tried to calmly mention that it would require an almost daily dusting with the floor mop and that the cat would probably scratch it AND when her daughter's Rottweiler dog comes to visit, he surely would scratch it.  She finally settled on carpeting--HOWEVER--she didn't get a decent pad and now she says, "This carpeting isn't very good.  It feels as thin as the old stuff I had."

They owned a motor home.  When they decided not to go to Florida anymore, they decided to let the motor home go back to the bank.  She said, "So we won't have to make payments on it anymore."  The bank sold it, but didn't get the price, so Pearl and Merle ended up having to pay $5,000.00 for it--a motor home they no longer had.

Fifteen years ago, they had property in Howell.  It was a large lot, a creek running through it and Merle built a large barn on it that they planned on living in part of the barn.  Then--because they hadn't checked, they found out it wasn't in a residential zone.  <sigh>  So--they had a nice piece of property, but could not live on it.

They purchased the trailer they live in now--it had to be completely gutted--a new roof put on--new siding, --new windows, new floors, new plumbing.  Soooooooo, they used the property in Howell as equity--to renovate the trailer and buy a 10 year old car.  Four years later--their VARIABLE mortgage on the property went up--the real estate market went south and now--they had a huge loan they could not pay back  They let it go to the county for back taxes--five years worth of back taxes--because, "We are going to save money now!"

Pearl and Merle have my old storage unit up the road.  I went with her one day to help unload some stuff.  That storage unit is FULL of Cat condos she saw on TV, an ice cream maker, a small George Foreman grill, 4 Ready Set Go's--2 toaster ovens, a juice maker, 4 Comfy Cozy cushions, 3 different kinds of steam mops and 6 coats she bought on QVC.  If it is advertised on an infomercial--Pearl has it!  She goes to the Salvation Army every Tuesday and comes home with bags and bags of "stuff" because she saved so much money.  

They filed for bankruptcy three months ago--going to save money to replace their 16 year old car--however--now that they don't have any credit cards to pay--the EXTRA money has gone into cheap carpeting, a whole new bedroom set of linens, curtains, etc. and now--she is talking about getting a new refrigerator.

Not only do they NOT have life insurance, they don't have a cemetery lot!!

I'm sorry for the gossipy rant, but I get so frustrated with her!!!

I fear Merle is going to die first and I have no idea how in this world she is going to get by.  He still works, at age 77, and is exhausted every night when he gets home.  It is seasonal work, so when winter comes--she will be crying again about not having enough money.  

I GIVE UP!!!

I'm going to bed--tomorrow will be a good day--I hope!

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Egyptian King

Today's high temperature was:  73 degrees

Today's humidity was:  29%

Sunny and very nice

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I just realized this morning, that I am like one of those Pharaohs--watching as my tomb is being built.  Having a say in life after my death.  It seems that lately, I have been pre-occupied with death--mine in particular.  While I haven't thought I was--just look at what I am so obsessively doing!!!

Making sure the house is cleaned.  Making sure things are thrown away.  Making sure plastic storage boxes (no--I don't have cardboard boxes used for storage--that would be normal.  I have the big plastic ones!)  are organized with like items, labelled, stacked in order of importance.

Lists made, forms filled out and put in folders with marked tabs--a box enclosing smaller boxes with jewelry or coins inside for the grand kids, pictures, scrapbooks--all enclosed in a large plastic box with the word "FUNERAL" in permanent marker on the lid.  Knick Knacks sitting around, with the person I want to have it, name on the bottom.

I think about it all the time.  It's like a major event I have to plan to the nth degree!

I am not living!!!  I am merely breathing while preparing for my death!  GEEZ!!!

This morning I read Jean's blog post and she spoke on being relevant.  Her husband had a stroke when they were still fairly young.  Her relevancy then was to care for him.  I liken it to her "career".  He died, about two weeks after Fred did.  Can you imagine the huge hole that was left in her life?  All she had done for fifteen years, was gone.  A quick, early, unwanted retirement from her career.  Now, she is trying to find new relevancy in her life--and she has.

I have no relevancy--really, I don't.  AND--I don't actively seek it.

I am so enamored with quietness, solitude, perfect silence most of the time.  It has become very difficult for me to be around a group of people for more then two hours.  There is too much talking, too much noise, too much activity--it tires me out.  Having to go to the Senior Center, with all those people, all that "noise", to me, would be torture.  Going on a bus trip with them, would be torture.

Even going to family functions, is very hard.  There is so much noise and activity and movement all the time, every where.  After a couple of hours, I just want to come home and be quiet.

I don't understand any of this.  I use to be so involved in so many things-- a meeting or an activity every single day--well into my sixties.  People counted on me.  Every committee knew that I would be the one to plan the next event, take notes at all meetings, make the phone calls, head the different groups.  When I worked at my last job, I was the one who planned the entire company picnic--the company Christmas party--for 300 people.  I made the invitations, took the RSVP's, set up the time and place, planned the games, met each and every employee at the door, knew every one's name and their spouses names. Contacted every new employee and put out the bi-weekly newsletter for the entire company of over 600 employees--along with my regular duties.   I LOVED IT!!!

When our class had their reunions, I was the one who typed up and mailed the invitations, contacted each classmate, scanned and copied every one's graduation picture to use as a "Hello, I am" badge.  Got their most recent picture to go on a page with their life history, made up the books that everyone received at the reunion.  I LOVED IT!!!

I WAS RELEVANT!!!

Now--I'm just a dud!  Oh--I still love one-on-one conversations and visits, but I can't take one-on-many.  Perhaps it is because I am getting hard of hearing and with all the different conversations going on, it is hard for me to keep up.  Or, perhaps, in a group, I go to say something and someone else interrupts, or a different conversation starts up at the other end of the table?

I had a really funny, I thought, story to relate at our gal pals luncheon Thursday.  I tried to tell it twice, but there was so much conversation going on at different parts of the table that I just stopped talking.  When we were done with lunch, they all went for a ride on the pontoon boat and I used the excuse that I was afraid of water and boats (which I am) and was going to get on home.  In reality--I was just so exhausted and I just wanted to get into my nice quiet car and drive a nice quiet drive, to my nice quiet house.

I am very weird lately.  I don't feel like the person I used to be.  I don't react like I use too.  Sometimes, I don't even know who I am anymore.  So--I close myself off and in doing so, I close myself off even farther--becoming even more old and eccentric.  When I was in six grade, I wrote a story about a hermit who lived in a hut in the woods.  I was very descriptive.  It seems, that is my life now--except I have all my electronics to connect to the outside world.  Maybe that is why I don't go out much anymore--the world comes to me.  Ah yes--I remember in 1984, a class on computers--those new things, and how the instructor said that it wouldn't be good for people's social life because--we would quit going to the library, order our groceries delivered, talk to people through electronic mail instead of on the phone or face-to-face--we no longer would interact.  I thought he was nuts--apparently he was very wise.
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A picture I found on my way looking for something else.  My mother made me the skirt--white felt with the green tree and many ornaments sewed on it--it had a battery pack I put in my pocket and could turn the lights on it.  I do not look happy and I was not happy.  I am holding my 10 1/2 month baby (Mark) and already 6 weeks pregnant for my second child (Pam).  I had an extremely long, difficult labor with Mark (22 hours)  (42 stitches inside and out) and I was terrified about going through that again.  So I was not happy.  However--Pam only took 4 hours and 4 stitches. I think the next Christmas with two little ones, I was all smiles and by the fourth Christmas of my marriage, with three, one a little 6 week old baby, I was quite contented actually.

Love my shiny green shoes, in the picture,however! 
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On my 60th birthday, with all my kids, a couple of new sons, and 5 grand children.  I would like another family picture taken. Maybe I could request that from my kids for my 75th birthday?

(Pammie's husband Allen behind her.  I loved that boy!!!{still do}).

front: Helene, Pammie, Me, Madeleine, Karen, Susanna, Stephen in red shirt.

Back:  Allen, Jennifer, my Mark, Karen's Mark and Marcus.
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Aha--I just figured it out.  

Control!!

I have very little control in my life right now, but at least this one last thing, I can control.  Not death itself, but the final presentation.

Goofy

Today's high temperature was: 73 degrees

Today's humidity was: 24%

Another perfect sunny, breezy day

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Jeanette, I remember you telling how you used to camp out and enjoy Myer's Lake when you were a kid.  Glad I could take you back to those memories!.

Remember last week I told you of how the garbage guy dropped kicked my plastic garbage can around and I went out and confronted him?  Well, yesterday morning, I heard the truck coming, so I scooted in here and kind of hid behind the opaque curtains I have and watched.  He was oh, so careful.  Dumped the contents and placed the can, carefully, upside down on the edge of the driveway.  Then, as he hopped on the back of the truck, the driver gave him the thumbs-up sign.

So--just to tease a bit more--I hurriedly got dressed and listened for them to go around the block and drive by on their way out.  I heard them coming down the side street and walked out to pick up the can.  As they drove by, the young one looked my way and I gave him the thumbs-up sign and yelled THANK YOU and smiled a big smile.  The kid waved, but the driver never even sneaked a look in my direction.  I can just hear their conversation now:

"Crazy old bitch!"

He will never know when I am watching, so I expect my garbage can will be carefully taken care of and I won't have to buy a new one for awhile.  Pearl got a new one in June--with wheels and an attached lid.  The lid is already broken off as is one of the wheels.  I told her to hustle out there and yell at them!!!

She said, "You know I can barely walk.  How do you expect me to hustle?"

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So today--my head has been so goofy.  At various times of the day--many times, I thought it was Saturday. I woke up kind of groggy and weird in the head--which is not unusual, but seemed more so today.

I found out something today--I cannot move the refrigerator out from the cubby it is in.  I just am not strong enough to wiggle it back and forth to get it out.  I had to use a really narrow brush that I use to clean (deep) in the dryer lint trap to try and get the dust/cat hair out from under it.

I found out something else today.  I now know where Maggie The Cat hides her mousie toys.  One under the washer, one under the dryer, one under the stove, and two under the chest of drawers that I use as a pantry in the kitchen.

I still am missing one--who knows where it might be?  I put them all in her toy basket and she already has one back under this piece of furniture.

After I got those chores done, I spent about two hours making calls and going through my end of life papers--life insurance policy, accounts at the bank, funeral plan revises.  I am making Pammie my beneficiary  on the life insurance, the bank accounts and executrix of my estate (note: estate is an operative word here.  I do not have an estate, LOL.)  I have been filling out and sending in new beneficiary forms.  Called the bank to see if I should put her on my accounts as POD (payable on death) or as joint so she can write out checks for me--POA.

I remembered that if I am in Hospice and in a coma, she might have to write out a check from my account to pay for the final BIG dose of morphine to send me on my journey.

I talked it over with Karen and my sister.  Jennifer used to have that position, because she is an attorney, but-----now that it has been four months since she has had or allowed any contact with me and the grand kids or her--I am over all that.  Pammie is my eldest daughter (My son Mark wouldn't know what to do any of what will be needed doing), and besides that--Pammie needs any money she can get.

So I am in the process of writing out the instructions for her on what to do and how to go about it.  The life insurance of course will pay for the funeral--if there is any cents left over, she gets them.  She will get all the money that is in my bank accounts--which, if I live more then six months, will be a pittance.  I can only hope I die after the 3rd of the month, but before any bills are paid so my SS will be in there.

The car and house will be sold and she will split that with her siblings--4 way split.    

I've got my cemetery spot and my marker, so--that won't have to be paid for.  I told her (in the instructions) not to have a fancy funeral--not to let emotions play any role when it comes to the casket and other "equipment" needed.  I have seen too many people get all involved in the "we have to have the best casket for Dad," or "we have to have the biggest floral casket spray for Mom"--ridiculous!!!  That casket is going into a cement vault never to be seen again--so--a pine one would be just fine with me.  I only need it until the Son comes from the east and the trump sounds and then, I am outta there!!!

Now--after I get everything set, I just need to tell Pammie, LOL. I think she will think it is cool, actually.  Karen said, "Mom, I don't expect to get anything from you or Dad, so, let Pammie handle it and keep whatever money is left over."  Not much money, but I have lots of "things" that may be valuable to leave my sister, the kids and grand kids, so.....................just tidying my life--in case.  We never know!

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Pearl came down and we got into an argument discussion about animals and if they are capable of reasoning and thought processes.  of course, she thinks they are.  She went on and on about how her cat was lying on the floor this morning and all of a sudden, he sat up, turned his head from side-to-side, like he was thinking of something, and then walked off into the bedroom and got up on the window sill.  "I just know he was thinking of his next move."

I just sat there and didn't say a word and she finally said, "Don't you think animals can think and reason things out?"

I shook my head.

"What?  I know they can and I am not going to even talk about it!  Why do you think he sat like that, like he was thinking, and then walked into the bedroom and jumped up on the sill?"

"Because he does that every morning.  Doesn't he?"

"Well...yes...BUT today, I could tell, he was thinking about what to do next!"

Okay

I am not going to get into animal instinct, and habit and what they've been taught with her because...if she thinks her cat can reason and go through choices of right and wrong and whatever---let her think that--it makes her feel good.  I will never get into the discussion of whether animals go to Heaven--no, no, no. My idea on that would probably send her into a stroke!  and if you feel that they do--that is quite all right--it all goes back to--who really knows and we won't find out until we get there, but seriously--animals don't have a "soul", they cannot reason good or bad, they can't make the choice of whether to believe, so---I think there are animals in Heaven--I just don't think my own Muffy is there.  Muffy went over The Rainbow Bridge--end of story!  (Hope I haven't offended anyone.)

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The Detroit Tigers had a double-header today--lost them both to Kansas City Royals!  I watched and cross stitched and started a crochet project.  Just what I need--another project, but then of course, I have that nice big box with all things inside and no project messes setting out.  BIG SMILE!!

Then, I sat down tonight and paid the rest of this months bills. Hope I don't die tonight--Pammie will get nothing, LOL.

I recently heard someone comment, "Where has summer gone!"  I thought to myself, no one ever says, "where has winter gone", instead they say, "where is spring!"  and yet, now, no one is saying "where is fall and winter!"  Ah yes, the few precious months of summer we have, seem very, very short!!!

Later--Jude

The Best Day

Today's high temperature was:  72 degrees

Today's humidity was: 26%

Sunny, breezy--lovely

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Now--we are into Jude's favorite kind of weather--the 70's!!  Not such a long post, but lots of pictures.

Rolly clouds under jet streams

It was the third Thursday of the month, so it must be Lunch Bunch day!!!  YAY.  Today was really nice.  Instead of a noisy restaurant, we went to a member's home--such a home you would not believe!!!  Cedar Shake siding, quiet gravel road--ON THE LAKE!!!  She has promised that I can move in and rent the basement!!!!!  Yep--I could live there the rest of my life--not in the whole big house--but the basement--which of course, looks out over the lake and is a walk-out basement.

That is pronounced Are Jen Tine not Are Jen Teen.

Little town about 10 miles east of Byron, my hometown.

Argentine Roller Rink--where we skated a lot.

It used to be called just Myer's Lake

A decade, or so, ago, they sold it to the Byron Methodist Church

This is the park where we used to hang out a lot and swim.

Every last day of school picnic was held here.

Roller Rink in the park--skated a lot here too.

The lake where most of us took Red Cross Swimming lessons

and

where I tried to drown.  I could practically walk to that float out there

and dog paddled the rest of the way, but when we had to jump in

and

the water came around me--I just couldn't remember what to do, so....

the two instructors jumped in and saved me and towed me back to shore.

I am sorry I did not get a picture of the front of the house--

I was carrying in deviled eggs, my purse and Diet Pepsi.

This is what greets you when you walk into the front door

and kitchen.  This room is 30 x 24--living room I guess.

Nice landscaping.

Love the switch plates

My two best gal pals left from the six of us that were a 

"group" especially in high school.

Sally and Bethie

They would not like this picture--from left around --

Ruth Ann, Marlene (in red) Sally, Carolyn (Marlene's sister and our hostess) June, Bethie

One of our group, Nancy is recovering from total knee replacement she had this past Tuesday.

Not a very good picture of Carolyn, but you can see the big room behind her.

and that lady straight in front of you, about to eat cake is

June.

I have mentioned her before!  She married a real weird guy-

I think he had money.  No children, by choice, so she gets irritated

if we spend too much time talking about ours and our grand kids.

She was a teacher and has traveled to 6 Continents

AND

she will tell you all about her travels, ad nauseum.  Plus, she knows

everything about everything and will also tell you that, ad nauseum.

She has told me outright what a plebeian, bumpkin I am

because I have never traveled to Europe and don't want too.

I told her, "There is so much to see in these beautiful United

States and...I have no wish to ride in a crowded plane for a day

to go see some old, falling down,crowded city."

(Which is not exactly true as I'd love to see Germany and Austria

but I will never let HER know that!!)

Each of us take a turn sitting beside her because she will monopolize you

and you can't hear any other's conversations--she wasn't too bad today.

She also has many rentals and will complain, ad nauseum about

all the work involved, but when Sally asked her why she didn't sell

them, June answered, "Oh, I can't afford to." so Sally said, "Well, you

made your decision, now quit griping about it."  LOL

Then on the way home--back roads all the way because....I needed it...

Fields and fields of corn--tasseled out real nice.  Looks like a good crop this year

Hay fields

I believe this time of year, this must be his third cutting.  

That is unusual as we are glad to get first and second cutting.

I was surprised he wasn't chopping it to blow it into his silo.

He is cutting it into furrows to bale.

Love this old barn--what used to be.

Scheffler on the end in some sort of glass circles.

Then, too soon I was back in this construction that's going on around here.

When I shop at the Rich People's store, they give me a coupon for .10 off a gallon of gas.  Last week, they gave me a coupon for .50 off per gallon!!!  I got gas today and only paid $3.00 a gallon.  Which is a really great price.  No wait--$3.00 for a gallon of gas is ridiculous!!!  But--I can't control the price, so at least, today, I got a break.  Do you all remember pulling into the gas station and saying to the attendant, "Give me a dollar's worth, please", and then cruising around on that all weekend?

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I have saved the best news for last.....Bethie gave me some cat food today--YAY--I was needing it.  AND--she said she had another present for me--for birthday's and Christmas' for the next--forever.  It is wonderful!!!  I was stunned and didn't know what to say. Another old box--a Shaker box.  She purchased it in 2006.  It is painted with mustard-milk paint--has what is called Swallow Tail joints in the back, secured with tiny copper tacks.  It is made of Maple--the thin wood, soaked in water and then bent into the oval shape.  It is 110 of 300 made.  It now resides on my wooden box collection site with the Lavender bunch on top--because, Bethie also grows Lavender.  Thank you my sweet friend--it is a cherished piece for me.

Just got a call from the monument company.  My grave markers are in place.  I had called them because they told me "8 to 10 weeks" and it has been 16 weeks.  They said they have been ready for placement for weeks, but the cemetery "guy" never called them to tell them the bases were ready--the bases have been ready since end of June.  It's real hard to get good help nowadays--isn't it?  I just do not understand the ineptitude of some people/businesses, etc!!!  So--now, when I can gather myself to be in the right mood, I will drive on out and see my eternal resting place.  YIKES!!  Might creep me out, but....it is a good thing.

See ya later--who knows what fun tomorrow may bring!

Well--Here We Are!!!

The high temperature today was:  65 degrees

The humidity was: 34%

Cool, sunny, breezy.  

The low last night was: 42 degrees

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So, I posted a post Saturday.  Went to bed and before I got asleep, remembered something I had to do on the computer.  I pushed the start button and.......it stuck!!

All day Sunday, no computer.  Took it in early Monday morning.  Tuesday--nothing.  Half of today--nothing.  GOOD GRIEF!!!  I never realized how addicted and dependent I am on this dang, electronic thing!!

What to do in the morning with no computer?  What to do in the evening, with no computer?  I do not like anything on TV in the morning's it appears--good Lord I tried to find something, but da nada!  I do not like The Talk or The View or The Price is Right--nuttin'.  I had the evening computer "no-time" solved.  If there was not a baseball game on, I watched DVD's.  "Babe", "Charlotte's Web", "Hoosier's", "The Iron Lady".  But---what to do during the day and of course, since I was bored and going to bed at 11:00, I woke up early--making the boring day even longer.

So--I figured as long as the computer was unhooked, I would clean all around my desk.  OHMYGOSH!!!  I just moved everything around in here 19 months ago, but you would not believe the dust and the cat hair and the dust and then there was some really dusty places.  So--I washed the curtains, and the windows and I took everything off the book shelves and threw away and packed up and dusted and shined, then I---are you ready for this?  Scrubbed a couple of walls AND--are you ready--I opened up that storage closet and I pulled everything out and I went through all boxes and threw out and reorganized and put everything back, but in less boxes and quite neat and organized.  So--that was Sunday--now what to do the rest of the computerless days?

I can't remember what I did each day, but I tore apart the kitchen, polished the cupboard doors, washed, starched and ironed the kitchen curtains, mopped the kitchen and entryway floor, washed throw rugs, vacuumed every inch of carpeting.  Scrubbed another wall, and the front door, and the front door threshold, and the wall by the furnace and the inside of the broom closet, took my high reaching feather thingie and went over every ceiling in every room---I even cleaned and dusted my doll house and then--I went outside and tackled the storage shed. Rearranged a lot of stuff, put away some stuff, dead-headed annuals, cleaned, scrubbed bird feeders and had to get a new finch feeder because the whole bottom fell out and..........

I cross stitched, started a crochet project, read, visited Pearl, went to the grocery store and finally---today at 2:00 they called and said it was ready to come home!!!   Apparently I now have my fall house cleaning done?

The reason the start button stuck?  It was gummed up with grease, gunk and tar from cigarette smoke!!!  It has sat in basically the same place for 8 years (when I had it built) and, at one time, Fred and I both did all our smoking in this room.  So--they cleaned the inside and they cleaned the hard drive and found a bunch of junk, they checked the mother board and everything else.  $65.00.  Then I had them go in and uninstall a couple of "trial" programs I had on it and could not uninstall--AND they took off a PC cleaner I had on it.  They told me that down loading that kind of thing--a registry cleaner can really mess up the registry and load up a computer with viruses!!!!!  Who knew?  I had them load on the virus protection program they recommended and now--I don't have to do a maintenance "cleaning" that I do once a week.  Total price: 130.08 and I am more then happy to have my best buddy back home and running like a charm.

This is what I observed, as I wasn't stuck in here half the day:

Momma Cardinal in for lunch

Daddy saw her chased her away--see him looking down at her?

This little lady comes way more then I ever realized.

Gold Finch on new feeder.  Sparrow and Cardinal sharing the big feeder

AND-look what came in the mail today. To say I like it is an understatement.  I adore it!!!  I love it!!! and it holds my cross stitch AND my crochet project just perfectly.  The only problem I can see?  I need to put a "bumper"  under the heavy lid or I am going to smash a finger one of these days.  It is heavy!!

 I think it looks okay over there with the other old boxes?

It holds my cross stitch quilt

 Isn't it marvelous--the way it is beat up?

It is even wide enough to hold my large, magnetic pattern holder.

Okay kids--I am not dead--which is a good thing, but when I do die, Pammie has instructions on how to get in here and post a note telling you all that I took my long journey.  It is really nice to know that people worry about me--we never know--we could go to the ER one night and never come out, so.........

Later--Jude

I'm Okay

Computer has been in hospital for last 4 days--just got it back home and AMAZINGLY--got all the cords in the right spots in the back and we are now good to go.  I will blog later--maybe not until tomorrow as I have over 300 e-mails to look at.