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Onward and upward! something that you say in order to encourage someone to forget an unpleasant experience or failure and to think about the future instead and move forward.

My e-mail: jjmiller6213@comcast.net

Sunday, December 7, 2014

Saturday Post and Ponderings

I am so disappointed in blogging--not mine or most of yours, but because of Face Book, a lot of my favorite bloggers no longer blog.  They post what is going on in their lives, on Face Book.  Not the "whole" story, like I used to get in their blogs, but just a tidbit.  I hate it!!

I don't think people who truly enjoy writing use Face Book for that means.  We "writer's" need to be more descriptive or open or, at least write down our feelings.  We writer's who live alone must journal of our day, to get it down, to see comments, just to make sure people know we are still alive, or so that their comments let us know we are still relevant or that our blogger friends "get it".

Anyway--I miss my friends who "used" to blog and now...don't.
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I was pondering something this past week--I ponder a lot you know and then I put it here to see if I am totally nuts or if anyone else has done it, or just to get it out of my head.

I looked back and realized that, my life is better in odd numbered years than in even numbered years.  Isn't that the weirdest thing to think about?  Is it because I was born in an odd numbered year?  Is it just a coincidence?  (Probably).

I started with this year, thinking what a brutal year it has been for me and than I thought, "Last year didn't seem too bad."  Than I remembered--2012 was awful--Fred died January 1st.  2010 was not so great, that's when he had his massive heart destroying attack.  Yes, he lived, but his life was never very good after that.  2008 my Dad died and my sister and I had our inheritance stolen.  In 2002, I was pushed out of my job, by illegal means.  Before that, 1992, I was downsized out from my great job at GM.  1988 I married for the second time to a man who abused me almost daily and tried to kill me three times.  1982 my first husband and I separated.  My wonderful mother died in 1970, my blessed Grandmother in 1966.  1946 I lost part of my index finger.

The odd numbered years seem a whole lot better to me--1939 I was born.  1945 WWII ended.  1957 I graduated and got married.  Three of my children were born in 1959, 1961 and 1971.   I moved in with my dear friend Ernie in 1993.  I moved here in 2003.  I met Fred in 2005.  

Bottom line--I am expecting 2015 to be a much better year for me!!
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I just found out that my vintage Avon porcelain nativity set with stable is selling for $500.00 on e-bay!!  NO--I am not going to sell mine--I'd just spend the money and not have the precious nativity.

When my Dear Friend Chris was living with me, back in the mid-80's, I sold her the 3 piece Holy Family.  She mentioned she remembered it and still has it.

Her comment made me remember and sure enough, in the bottom of the storage tub where I keep all my nativities, was the small stand to use with just the 3 pieces.  I hadn't used it ever because I always used the little stable in this pix.

So, I boxed it up and mailed it to her.  She was thrilled as am I that she has it!
When I was checking e-bay to find a picture of it to post here, there was one for sale for $49.00!!!  I think it came in it's original box however, and I never keep the original boxes on anything, LOL.








9 comments:

  1. I save original boxes on nearly everything I think will go up in value.

    I can't say that my life and odd/even years have a correlation. But it sure is interesting that your life does. You've also had so many more life events than I do.

    I don't like Facebook for writing more than a sentence or two, mostly commenting on someone's posting or pictures. And for the reasons you stated. No one on Facebook wants to read long winded stuff. Once in a very long while I'll post a link to a particular blog entry, if I think family will enjoy my walk down Memory Lane---maybe once or twice a year. I'm low key on FB. I do flashback Thursday with old photos sometimes and I don't do "friends" with anyone I don't have a face-to-face relationship with.

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  2. I know an awful lot of people who seem to spend most of each evening 'cruising' Facebook to collect gossip for the next day at work. That's not my scene at all... so I have a FB page that is pretty much dormant. For various reasons I've 'come and gone' from the blogosphere...but it's definitely where I like to 'virtually socialise'.
    I sincerely hope 2015 is an excellent year for you! Jx

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  3. I don't have Facebook and really don't have any need for it. I think it's nice to connect with people, but I do that through mail or e-mail.

    I chuckled over your comment about your life being better in odd years. I do that with my age! I am 47 and it has been a great year so far--I hesitate to turn 48 in March because I haven't had the best track record on even years. Lol! You aren't alone in your thinking, Judy!

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  4. Don't worry about me, Judy; I don' do Facebook. I see it as a gossip column ~ others who follow tell me things about my grandchildren ~ not bad things, and I know they post them, but it seems to me it's no ones business. Maybe I'm just old and out of touch.

    I don't always leave a comment for you, but trust me, I'm a dedicated reader. :)

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  5. I agree about FB - and missing blog friends. When someone who blogs also writes everything on FB, then it takes the pleasure of reading the "whole" story on the blog. Well, anyway I love your nativity and wouldn't ever want to sell it either. I hope you have a good week. xoxo

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  6. I am a member of Facebook but I hardly visit or use it. I think that place is highly over-rated and it just gets people into trouble. It's a decent place when you are looking for someone but I like to read peoples' blogs like yours. Who wants to read something on Facebook that most of the world can see. Dumb.

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  7. You can find almost anything on eBay these days! I have a old Nativity set from Home Interiors that's still in perfect condition but not the original box, I never keep those either! Hope that 2015 is your year, Judy!

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  8. I have the Dept. 56 Dickens Village - most of them in the original boxes. I should check eBay.

    I hope you have a fantastic 2015.

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