You gotta love this Michigan weather. It is quite normal to have the furnace running in the morning and the A/C switched on in the afternoon. It was in the 90's last Wednesday and the high 60's on Thursday. This morning when I woke up, having forgotten to close my bedroom window last night, it was 65 in here. I turned on the furnace while I took my shower. Turned it off and won't turn it on the rest of the day, as it will be in the upper 60's. I'm glad I have one of those thermostat's--temperature set at 73 degrees, and all I have to do is move the little slider to Heat or Cool.
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Dar is off on vacation with her friend Sheila to the Upper Peninsula--I hope they took warm clothes. Before she left yesterday, Dar called me twice. She has a C-Pap machine coming. It will be delivered by Fed Ex. When I see the truck, could I go over and get the package off her porch.
2nd call: Could I go over on Tuesday--specifically Tuesday--and pick all her tomatoes. The plants are dying, but they are still producing tomatoes and she doesn't want them to go to waste. In my rebellious mind, I will go over on FRIDAY (she will be home Saturday) and pick the tomatoes, see if Pearl or Jackie want any, take what I need and throw the rest in the garbage.
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The genealogy I am having fun with, took me to a standstill. I couldn't find the man's parents. Finally, I found a research link that showed his name and his parents. When I clicked on his parents, there was the next generation up and so on. I got up 16 generations. Then researched each one, saved each census or fact I could find, or printed them out, scanned them as a photo and saved them to my picture file.
That way, I can insert the photo/facts when I get to their specific page in the book. It took me all week and...it was wonderful!!!
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I had to run to Walmart to pick up a prescription and some milk and as I was walking through, there was a 42" flat screen TV on sale for $168.00! That is less then we paid for the 32" one I have, 8 years ago.
I just stood there and stared and went over all the reasons I needed to buy it. I have wanted a larger TV for the last couple of years. My eyes are bad enough now, that even with my glasses on, I can't see the print on the TV--print--like the score of a ballgame at the upper right of the screen or the printing that runs along the bottom of the screen.
Then, as I stood there, I pondered on whether I could afford to use half my grocery money to buy it. I could have someone tote it out to my car, but I didn't think the box would fit in my car. How would I get it out and into my house?
I took a few steps down the aisle, then stopped and looked back. That is such a good price! I have been noticing and looking for the last coupe of years. Usually they are $198.00.
Then, I just shook my head and headed over to the dairy department and got my milk and some gallons of water, and some bathroom tissue, and............................
Of course, all day yesterday, when I watched TV, it seemed I couldn't see anything.
Oh well.
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My sister loves to watch Tennis. My sister loves Venus Williams. My sister is very upset with Venus Williams' actions on the court. I don't watch Tennis. Yesterday, I was engaged in watching Golf and Tiger Woods, who also used to act like a spoiled brat, until he had to take a couple of years off because of his injuries and back surgeries.
So to soothe my sister, I explained that I had read that Venus Williams has been suffering from post-partum depression, and to remember when our own Jennifer had that, how touchy she was. Any little thing would set her off in an angry outburst. And I reminded my sister, how angry everyone is nowadays, and how they feel it is their right to express that anger no matter where they are or what the consequences.
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I live quite a peaceful and serene life. I know I can't do one thing to change how our politicians act or react. I can't do one thing to change how my neighbors act or react. Dar, a lifelong very, extreme, ranting and raving Democrat, voted for and is now a rabid, ranting and raving Trump fan. OY! She comes over here with her rants. I asked her one day, "Can you change any of it?" She replied, "No." So I asked her, "Why don't you just not listen to the news?"
All anything like this, is as it is. Will continue to be as it will be. If I get involved, by watching the nonsense all day, I am going to become upset and angry. I don't want that. The only thing I can control, is what happens in my own home--and sometimes I can't control that. I try real hard just to stay calm and keep myself peaceful.
Maybe I don't need a bigger TV. Then, all that stuff on the News would just be, more "in my face?" HAH!
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Sunday, September 9, 2018
Sunday, September 2, 2018
Dar came over this morning. It's been about 3 months since she's been here. I had posted on FB that I woke up with my right eye lid swollen and I couldn't see very well. She came over because, she said, "I wanted to make sure you hadn't had a stroke."
Okay.
We chatted--rather she chatted, I sat and listened. Then I asked why she hadn't gone to church and she told me she left that church.
She had been going for about 5 months and decided she wanted to join. She took the membership classes. For the next three Sunday's, the Pastor would call up to the altar new members, so the congregation could greet them. He never called Dar up.
She finally asked him why and he sort of hemmed and hawed. She said, "Is it because of my father, I can't be away from home much, so I can't take part in helping the church. Work in the nursery. Help with funeral dinners?"
The Pastor just smiled, so she said, "Okay. I get it." and walked out and never went back.
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I felt so bad for her that I got tears in my eyes. "That must have hurt." I said.
"It did." she said as she teared up.
I went on to explain or try and figure out why she had been denied membership.
In our church, if you want to become a member, yes you take membership classes. These explain the doctrine of the church, it's beliefs and such. No where are you told you have to join the choir, or work the nursery or anything like that. It asks if you will support the church, but that could mean a lot of things. I know they would appreciate it if we tithed, because every year, at their "conference", each church has to pay $60.00 for each member on their rolls.
I'm a Methodist, so...... well ya know, we let anyone become a member if they want. We think it shows they have made a commitment to God and the doctrines our church upholds.
Then she said, "The "board" wouldn't approve me, I guess."
"You have to be approved by a........................"
"The board and the congregation have to accept me as a member," she said.
"Wow! That's rather exclusionary and biased and......snooty," I said.
"I would have been an asset to that church too. I often helped the Pastor there. One Sunday he was preaching from the book of Matthew and he didn't explain to the congregation that the last two chapters of Matthew, weren't written by Matthew. They were added centuries later, by someone else with their own interpretation. I told him after the sermon that I thought he should have informed the congregation of that and not let them think that was part of what Matthew wrote!"
Oh. oh.
"Another Sunday he mis-pronounced the names of two Greek cities. I have been to both of those cities, so I told him the correct pronunciation."
Hm-mm. Now I understand what went on.
Dar got on her, "I know more about the scriptures than you do...high horse."
"Ah...have you ever thought that maybe you intimidated the Pastor and made him uncomfortable when he preached, because he knew, you know more about the Bible than he does?"
"Well, wouldn't he like that? Wouldn't he like to have a member who could help him be a better teacher?"
Oh Dar--once again...it's all about you.
Did I say that? Of course not!
"Well, I'm real sorry it didn't work out for you. I know that you long to have a church."
"What I can't figure out," she said, "is why God would put me in that church, for so many months, only to take me out of it."
Perhaps God didn't put you in that church. You saw it one day when you drove by. You attended and thought, because it was a small church, you would have greater influence.
Did I say that? Of course not!
"You just have to keep praying and asking God. He will find you a church that is a perfect fit for you." That's what I said.
Dar and I are quite different in our church needs. She went to church with me one day and declared she didn't know why I even went to church. "You go in, you sing, you listen to the sermon and then you leave. Plus, I don't think your church is very spiritual."
Well, I never!!!!
When Dar goes to church, she goes as much for the social interaction as the message from the pulpit. She is gone at least two-three hours. There is meeting people before the service and there is the social hour after church and then meetings with the Pastor or different "influential" people in the church.
She's right. When I go to church, I enter the sanctuary, I sit down, I pray. I do not talk to people in the pew in front or behind me. I do not whisper. We are all going to acknowledge each other later when the Preacher calls for the "greeting". I love the songs, I love the choir anthem, I get what I can out of the sermon and then, as I leave, I shake the minister's hand and say Hi to people that greet me on my way out the door. I have absolutely no interest in joining one of the Ladies groups. I used to sing in the choir and loved that, but I never went to coffee hour after church. I guess I'm odd.
In our Church, we don't have a lot of shouting, raising our hands upward, or people yelling out, "Yes." "Tell it Brother", stuff like that. We do get into an occasional Amen, but it isn't shouted out. Like I said. I'm a Methodist. We don't get emotionally swept up too often.
Now Dar--she likes that sort of thing. She has her hands up for most of the service. She yells out. She goes down to the altar every Sunday, after the sermon. In our Church the only reason, other than for communion, anyone would go down to the altar is if they wanted to get "saved". So, after she attended church with me that day and went through all her gyrations, which I must say startled my calm Methodist pew sitters, and she said, "I go down to the altar to show that I am a Christian."
Ah yes. I think "show" is the operative word here. It's all for show. Oh, I shouldn't say that. Maybe the spirit over takes her. She has told me that she often speaks in tongues and when she does that, people will rush to lay hands on her.
Maybe they think she is in need of an exorcism? Sorry--that was bad................................
All churches worship differently. I guess it depends on the way you were raised. My Mother taught me that when you enter the sanctuary, you are in the presence of God and you are to be quiet and in a prayerful mood. My sister says, "What makes you think God is only in the sanctuary? He's out in the hall...down in the basement."
It's just that I was raised in the older times in church and I have never quite gotten into the "charismatic movement."
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I guess that's why I now enjoy watching church on TV. There is no distraction. I can center in on what the preacher is saying. I can sing in my raggedity voice, all the while, sitting in my pajamas. It's either that, or I have become a lazy bum.
Okay.
We chatted--rather she chatted, I sat and listened. Then I asked why she hadn't gone to church and she told me she left that church.
She had been going for about 5 months and decided she wanted to join. She took the membership classes. For the next three Sunday's, the Pastor would call up to the altar new members, so the congregation could greet them. He never called Dar up.
She finally asked him why and he sort of hemmed and hawed. She said, "Is it because of my father, I can't be away from home much, so I can't take part in helping the church. Work in the nursery. Help with funeral dinners?"
The Pastor just smiled, so she said, "Okay. I get it." and walked out and never went back.
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I felt so bad for her that I got tears in my eyes. "That must have hurt." I said.
"It did." she said as she teared up.
I went on to explain or try and figure out why she had been denied membership.
In our church, if you want to become a member, yes you take membership classes. These explain the doctrine of the church, it's beliefs and such. No where are you told you have to join the choir, or work the nursery or anything like that. It asks if you will support the church, but that could mean a lot of things. I know they would appreciate it if we tithed, because every year, at their "conference", each church has to pay $60.00 for each member on their rolls.
I'm a Methodist, so...... well ya know, we let anyone become a member if they want. We think it shows they have made a commitment to God and the doctrines our church upholds.
Then she said, "The "board" wouldn't approve me, I guess."
"You have to be approved by a........................"
"The board and the congregation have to accept me as a member," she said.
"Wow! That's rather exclusionary and biased and......snooty," I said.
"I would have been an asset to that church too. I often helped the Pastor there. One Sunday he was preaching from the book of Matthew and he didn't explain to the congregation that the last two chapters of Matthew, weren't written by Matthew. They were added centuries later, by someone else with their own interpretation. I told him after the sermon that I thought he should have informed the congregation of that and not let them think that was part of what Matthew wrote!"
Oh. oh.
"Another Sunday he mis-pronounced the names of two Greek cities. I have been to both of those cities, so I told him the correct pronunciation."
Hm-mm. Now I understand what went on.
Dar got on her, "I know more about the scriptures than you do...high horse."
"Ah...have you ever thought that maybe you intimidated the Pastor and made him uncomfortable when he preached, because he knew, you know more about the Bible than he does?"
"Well, wouldn't he like that? Wouldn't he like to have a member who could help him be a better teacher?"
Oh Dar--once again...it's all about you.
Did I say that? Of course not!
"Well, I'm real sorry it didn't work out for you. I know that you long to have a church."
"What I can't figure out," she said, "is why God would put me in that church, for so many months, only to take me out of it."
Perhaps God didn't put you in that church. You saw it one day when you drove by. You attended and thought, because it was a small church, you would have greater influence.
Did I say that? Of course not!
"You just have to keep praying and asking God. He will find you a church that is a perfect fit for you." That's what I said.
Dar and I are quite different in our church needs. She went to church with me one day and declared she didn't know why I even went to church. "You go in, you sing, you listen to the sermon and then you leave. Plus, I don't think your church is very spiritual."
Well, I never!!!!
When Dar goes to church, she goes as much for the social interaction as the message from the pulpit. She is gone at least two-three hours. There is meeting people before the service and there is the social hour after church and then meetings with the Pastor or different "influential" people in the church.
She's right. When I go to church, I enter the sanctuary, I sit down, I pray. I do not talk to people in the pew in front or behind me. I do not whisper. We are all going to acknowledge each other later when the Preacher calls for the "greeting". I love the songs, I love the choir anthem, I get what I can out of the sermon and then, as I leave, I shake the minister's hand and say Hi to people that greet me on my way out the door. I have absolutely no interest in joining one of the Ladies groups. I used to sing in the choir and loved that, but I never went to coffee hour after church. I guess I'm odd.
In our Church, we don't have a lot of shouting, raising our hands upward, or people yelling out, "Yes." "Tell it Brother", stuff like that. We do get into an occasional Amen, but it isn't shouted out. Like I said. I'm a Methodist. We don't get emotionally swept up too often.
Now Dar--she likes that sort of thing. She has her hands up for most of the service. She yells out. She goes down to the altar every Sunday, after the sermon. In our Church the only reason, other than for communion, anyone would go down to the altar is if they wanted to get "saved". So, after she attended church with me that day and went through all her gyrations, which I must say startled my calm Methodist pew sitters, and she said, "I go down to the altar to show that I am a Christian."
Ah yes. I think "show" is the operative word here. It's all for show. Oh, I shouldn't say that. Maybe the spirit over takes her. She has told me that she often speaks in tongues and when she does that, people will rush to lay hands on her.
Maybe they think she is in need of an exorcism? Sorry--that was bad................................
All churches worship differently. I guess it depends on the way you were raised. My Mother taught me that when you enter the sanctuary, you are in the presence of God and you are to be quiet and in a prayerful mood. My sister says, "What makes you think God is only in the sanctuary? He's out in the hall...down in the basement."
It's just that I was raised in the older times in church and I have never quite gotten into the "charismatic movement."
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I guess that's why I now enjoy watching church on TV. There is no distraction. I can center in on what the preacher is saying. I can sing in my raggedity voice, all the while, sitting in my pajamas. It's either that, or I have become a lazy bum.
Friday, August 31, 2018
I had a dream. A man, faceless, I could only see his hands, slid a beautiful yellow gold, sapphire, surrounded by diamonds, ring on my finger. I can still see it. It was beautiful.
Then he slid another ring on my finger--dull, silver color like pewter or tin and had engraved symbols on it. It was so wide that it nearly covered the other ring and scraped against my knuckle.
It rubbing my finger and made it sore, but when I tried to get it off, it was kind of like glued to my finger and I couldn't remove it.
Anyone have a Dream Dictionary and can figure this out?
Then he slid another ring on my finger--dull, silver color like pewter or tin and had engraved symbols on it. It was so wide that it nearly covered the other ring and scraped against my knuckle.
It rubbing my finger and made it sore, but when I tried to get it off, it was kind of like glued to my finger and I couldn't remove it.
Anyone have a Dream Dictionary and can figure this out?
Thursday, August 30, 2018
It's alive! It's alive!
I am alive, although I have felt better.
Changing meds, a week ago. You know how that goes. It takes awhile for it to get out of your system and then, when it does, it may cause a different feeling. Dehydration. Then blood tests every other minute to see what's going on with the electrolytes. It all leaves me dizzy and disoriented and generally feeling punk. But, my friend Trudy sent me an e-mail asking if I was all right, so--I thought I'd better post.
We have had a break in the weather. 50 degrees when I woke up this morning, so it feels cold...especially after having temps in or near the 90's and humidity of 79% for the past week. So today, would be the perfect day to get outside and trim the bushes and cut back the straggly looking perennials, if I thought I could stay upright.
I finished the baby afghan last weekend. This is the one I ripped out 7 times before I could figure it out. Even then, near the top when I was on my last few rows, I found another mistake and had to rip back 10 rows. It turned out fine however, and such a fascinating way to crochet that I have never done before, that yesterday, I started another one--different words.
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Aretha Franklin. Living only 60 miles north west of Detroit, my news channel is filled with tributes and interviews and on and on.
"She" arrived in a white Cadillac hearse at the place for her public viewing. In a gold casket, full open casket, dressed in a red gown and red high heels. That was Tuesday.
Wednesday, much to every one's surprise, she was dressed in a powder blue gown with blue sparkley heels.
I haven't yet heard what she is dressed in today or for her funeral tomorrow.
This means, each evening after the public viewing, the funeral home production team, takes her back to the mortuary, changes her gown, redoes her make-up and restyles her hair.
Now--if that doesn't creep you out--nothing will!
She is a big, heavy woman. I know that her gowns are cut in the back, so all they have to do is "re-wrap" her gown around her and tuck it in under her, but..........they still have to lift up that body and reposition it and....................it's dead!!!!!!!!
It's not a plastic mannequin. It's a heavy, cold, hard, dead human body.
ARGGH!!!
They say that's what she requested be done. Can we say, Super-ego, vain, haughtiness here?
To me it's just macabre and the public goes back every day to see what she's dressed in for that day. The whole think smacks of D-I-S-R-E-S-P-E-C-T to me and has turned into a media circus.
It would not surprise me if for her funeral, they have her strapped, upright in a golden throne chair as if she is sitting there witnessing all the performers paying her tributes!
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On the other hand--John McCain. I have respected this man for years and years. What a servant to our country he has been. Given a chance to get out of the POW camp, he declined unless they released all his fellow prisoners. He is not without minor scandals in his life, an affair, or two. The end of his first marriage. To me, that doesn't take away my respect for what he had done in his time in Congress.
What politician hasn't had scandal? Maybe not the Bush men or Obama.
There he lays. In his flag draped simple casket, as it should be. Not to be buried in Arlington National Cemetery, where he certainly should be, but buried instead on the grounds of the Naval Academy, where he wanted. A long way from his home in Arizona. Not easy for his family to make the trip to visit his grave, if they want.
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I have started work on another genealogy. Which means I need to feel better and have my full mental capabilities. My client supplied me with a lot of information her family had already found, but it is laid out in such a manner, that it is kind of confusing--trying to find where one generation stops and the next beings.
Pedigree charts that list not just a person, but all their children, and children's children, and aunts and uncles, and cousins and friends. I don't get that specific, because the book I make would be 500 pages long and much too difficult to decipher.
I stick to direct ancestor's...except...occasionally I will happen onto a great grandmother who has an interesting family and trace that. Usually genealogies deal with the father first. As we all know, men are the most important because they are the sires of the family "limbs".
Bah Humbug! There are some pretty interesting great grandma's out there who also have interesting family lineages and by gosh! they are going to have a few pages in the genealogy book too!!
Like the lady whose 5th great grandma was the last "witch" hung in Salem, Massachusetts. She needed to have her story told and printed out and included in the book.
Well, you know how obsessed I get when working on a genealogy. I have no idea what time it is and will hear the cuckoo clock tell me it's five in the afternoon and realize, I've been sitting here for three hours and had no idea.
At midnight, Tuesday night, I found something interesting to search for. If I had waited until morning, I may have forgotten, so here I sat, into the wee hours. I told my Face Book friends that I got this mental picture of me....sitting high in a tower in the dark of night, candles lit, my quill dipping into the ink well, scratching my findings on the parchment paper, which of course was dotted with ink splotches. Sort of like those photos we see of Nostradamus, except I am not predicting the future, but rather sorting through old census reports and military records and the like.
I rather deem myself a detective, not a prophet. HAH!!
Anyway--if I don't post regularly, you will know why. I have used all my mental strength typing genealogy material and have no strength left to report on the boring life I normally live.
Love to all--Toddles.
Changing meds, a week ago. You know how that goes. It takes awhile for it to get out of your system and then, when it does, it may cause a different feeling. Dehydration. Then blood tests every other minute to see what's going on with the electrolytes. It all leaves me dizzy and disoriented and generally feeling punk. But, my friend Trudy sent me an e-mail asking if I was all right, so--I thought I'd better post.
We have had a break in the weather. 50 degrees when I woke up this morning, so it feels cold...especially after having temps in or near the 90's and humidity of 79% for the past week. So today, would be the perfect day to get outside and trim the bushes and cut back the straggly looking perennials, if I thought I could stay upright.
I finished the baby afghan last weekend. This is the one I ripped out 7 times before I could figure it out. Even then, near the top when I was on my last few rows, I found another mistake and had to rip back 10 rows. It turned out fine however, and such a fascinating way to crochet that I have never done before, that yesterday, I started another one--different words.
Aretha Franklin. Living only 60 miles north west of Detroit, my news channel is filled with tributes and interviews and on and on.
"She" arrived in a white Cadillac hearse at the place for her public viewing. In a gold casket, full open casket, dressed in a red gown and red high heels. That was Tuesday.
Wednesday, much to every one's surprise, she was dressed in a powder blue gown with blue sparkley heels.
I haven't yet heard what she is dressed in today or for her funeral tomorrow.
This means, each evening after the public viewing, the funeral home production team, takes her back to the mortuary, changes her gown, redoes her make-up and restyles her hair.
Now--if that doesn't creep you out--nothing will!
She is a big, heavy woman. I know that her gowns are cut in the back, so all they have to do is "re-wrap" her gown around her and tuck it in under her, but..........they still have to lift up that body and reposition it and....................it's dead!!!!!!!!
It's not a plastic mannequin. It's a heavy, cold, hard, dead human body.
ARGGH!!!
They say that's what she requested be done. Can we say, Super-ego, vain, haughtiness here?
To me it's just macabre and the public goes back every day to see what she's dressed in for that day. The whole think smacks of D-I-S-R-E-S-P-E-C-T to me and has turned into a media circus.
It would not surprise me if for her funeral, they have her strapped, upright in a golden throne chair as if she is sitting there witnessing all the performers paying her tributes!
=====================
On the other hand--John McCain. I have respected this man for years and years. What a servant to our country he has been. Given a chance to get out of the POW camp, he declined unless they released all his fellow prisoners. He is not without minor scandals in his life, an affair, or two. The end of his first marriage. To me, that doesn't take away my respect for what he had done in his time in Congress.
What politician hasn't had scandal? Maybe not the Bush men or Obama.
There he lays. In his flag draped simple casket, as it should be. Not to be buried in Arlington National Cemetery, where he certainly should be, but buried instead on the grounds of the Naval Academy, where he wanted. A long way from his home in Arizona. Not easy for his family to make the trip to visit his grave, if they want.
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I have started work on another genealogy. Which means I need to feel better and have my full mental capabilities. My client supplied me with a lot of information her family had already found, but it is laid out in such a manner, that it is kind of confusing--trying to find where one generation stops and the next beings.
Pedigree charts that list not just a person, but all their children, and children's children, and aunts and uncles, and cousins and friends. I don't get that specific, because the book I make would be 500 pages long and much too difficult to decipher.
I stick to direct ancestor's...except...occasionally I will happen onto a great grandmother who has an interesting family and trace that. Usually genealogies deal with the father first. As we all know, men are the most important because they are the sires of the family "limbs".
Bah Humbug! There are some pretty interesting great grandma's out there who also have interesting family lineages and by gosh! they are going to have a few pages in the genealogy book too!!
Like the lady whose 5th great grandma was the last "witch" hung in Salem, Massachusetts. She needed to have her story told and printed out and included in the book.
Well, you know how obsessed I get when working on a genealogy. I have no idea what time it is and will hear the cuckoo clock tell me it's five in the afternoon and realize, I've been sitting here for three hours and had no idea.
At midnight, Tuesday night, I found something interesting to search for. If I had waited until morning, I may have forgotten, so here I sat, into the wee hours. I told my Face Book friends that I got this mental picture of me....sitting high in a tower in the dark of night, candles lit, my quill dipping into the ink well, scratching my findings on the parchment paper, which of course was dotted with ink splotches. Sort of like those photos we see of Nostradamus, except I am not predicting the future, but rather sorting through old census reports and military records and the like.
I rather deem myself a detective, not a prophet. HAH!!
Anyway--if I don't post regularly, you will know why. I have used all my mental strength typing genealogy material and have no strength left to report on the boring life I normally live.
Love to all--Toddles.
Tuesday, August 21, 2018
Well folks, we have a bit of a sticky wicket here on the home front.
John stopped by last week to give me a plastic container of blueberries he had picked. I haven't seen John in months. He works nights.
We sat and chatted for about an hour and as he was leaving, I walked over to the door to tell him goodbye. We hugged, as we always have.
He said something I didn't quite understand, something about a cuddle? I thought he was referring to the simple hug. I said, "Yes, hugs are nice."
Then he said, "Call me when you need me. I can stop by."
No big deal. I have called John before to help me lift something heavy out of the trunk of my car.
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The next day, while I was out shopping, when I got home, my answering machine was blinking. It was a call from John.
"Do you want me to come over tonight? Call me back and let me know."
What? Why would I want him to come over? Had I invited him over and forgotten about it?
So I called him back.
"I didn't understand your phone message," I said.
"I wondered if you wanted me to come over tonight."
"No...I...don't need anything. You can come over for a visit if you want."
"No. I meant...what we talked about the other day? I thought maybe you wanted me to come over for a cuddle."
"For...a...cuddle? I don't understand."
"Remember...as I was leaving. I said, 'Maybe I can come over for a cuddle and you said, yes, hugs are nice'."
"I remember saying hugs are nice, but I don't remember anything about a cuddle. What is a cuddle?"
"Well, older people, because they miss and get lonely for human touch, have what they call 'cuddle sessions'"
"What?"
"Cuddle sessions. They just sit on the couch and cuddle while they watch TV or talk. Sometimes they lay on the bed and just cuddle."
"That doesn't sound like a good idea to me."
"Oh...no...no. There is no romance involved. So sex or undressing or anything like that. Just a cuddle."
"Oh....well....ah...I don't think...well...that's not for me, John."
"Okay. If you change your mind, call me."
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What the What?
I've known John for 4 years. We've been good friends. He has never ventured more than a hug when we part. What the heck is this "cuddle session" all about?
So--I Googled it and this is what I found.
Well, for goodness sake!!!
I may have missed a great opportunity.
I'm just wondering. John is 5'5". I am 5'10".
Does the taller one cuddle the shorter one?
Or am I supposed to schootch way down so he can cuddle me?
I may have to contact Cuddle Comfort for answers to these questions.
I think John is ticked off at me.
John stopped by last week to give me a plastic container of blueberries he had picked. I haven't seen John in months. He works nights.
We sat and chatted for about an hour and as he was leaving, I walked over to the door to tell him goodbye. We hugged, as we always have.
He said something I didn't quite understand, something about a cuddle? I thought he was referring to the simple hug. I said, "Yes, hugs are nice."
Then he said, "Call me when you need me. I can stop by."
No big deal. I have called John before to help me lift something heavy out of the trunk of my car.
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The next day, while I was out shopping, when I got home, my answering machine was blinking. It was a call from John.
"Do you want me to come over tonight? Call me back and let me know."
What? Why would I want him to come over? Had I invited him over and forgotten about it?
So I called him back.
"I didn't understand your phone message," I said.
"I wondered if you wanted me to come over tonight."
"No...I...don't need anything. You can come over for a visit if you want."
"No. I meant...what we talked about the other day? I thought maybe you wanted me to come over for a cuddle."
"For...a...cuddle? I don't understand."
"Remember...as I was leaving. I said, 'Maybe I can come over for a cuddle and you said, yes, hugs are nice'."
"I remember saying hugs are nice, but I don't remember anything about a cuddle. What is a cuddle?"
"Well, older people, because they miss and get lonely for human touch, have what they call 'cuddle sessions'"
"What?"
"Cuddle sessions. They just sit on the couch and cuddle while they watch TV or talk. Sometimes they lay on the bed and just cuddle."
"That doesn't sound like a good idea to me."
"Oh...no...no. There is no romance involved. So sex or undressing or anything like that. Just a cuddle."
"Oh....well....ah...I don't think...well...that's not for me, John."
"Okay. If you change your mind, call me."
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What the What?
I've known John for 4 years. We've been good friends. He has never ventured more than a hug when we part. What the heck is this "cuddle session" all about?
So--I Googled it and this is what I found.
About Cuddle Comfort
More than 121,000 people from the United States and around the world use Cuddle Comfort. We created a platform so you can get a cuddle, whenever you want one, at no cost.
We help you create friendships based on cuddling that are pressure free and with no expectation of something more.
Cuddle Comfort started in 2011 with the goal of bringing physical affection to more people without the romantic prerequisites.
The cuddle industry is now booming, and as the inventors of online cuddling, we’re proud to have been part of its conception.
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Well, for goodness sake!!!
I may have missed a great opportunity.
I'm just wondering. John is 5'5". I am 5'10".
Does the taller one cuddle the shorter one?
Or am I supposed to schootch way down so he can cuddle me?
I may have to contact Cuddle Comfort for answers to these questions.
I think John is ticked off at me.
Monday, August 13, 2018
Karen sent me this photo of Della playing with Maddie's 20 year old toys I made or bought for her. I wonder how that Unicorn is still so clean looking? Piglet looks a little frayed.
My tub garden is growing and yielding, but I think I have a fail with my cucumber experiment.
Karen and Mark just got home from a two week visit to their second child, Susanna, who lives in Portland, Oregon. They did a lot of hiking the trails in OR and also Washington.
She'll be starting back to teach pretty soon.
My cukes look like commas!
Wednesday, August 8, 2018
I'll be fine!
Remember, a couple of months ago? I promised not to ever post about my financial problems....and then I did it again! I guess I was just in shock from getting notice of all the increases in one hour period! It was like a wall was falling down on my head and I was scared to open another envelope or e-mail.
I get anxious with my budget being so tight, with no extra money. I worry about a car breakdown. What is a tree falls on the house in a storm? I couldn't even pay the deductible. My house insurance had dropped the replacement of the unit itself, because it is 20 years old. I had it insured for $35,000.00. I do have full replacement on the contents though, and that cost just went up. The contents are the important stuff anyway. If the house burns up, it would give me an excuse to go live with Pam or Karen or out to New Jersey with Jennifer. I pick NJ, then I can go to The Shore!!
I don't know why my car insurance goes up. My car is also 20 years old I don't have collision on it, only PL and PD, but Michigan has the highest car insurance rates.
Sorry--I will try to keep that worry to myself. Nobody wants to read a post about that stuff! I guess, it's just that this blog is kind of like my journal, with people reading, that will commiserate with me and tell me it will all work out.
...............................and of course it will. God will sustain me.
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I am so sick of this humidity we are having. I check my inside thermometer weather station, and the outside temps looks good. But the humidity is sometimes higher than the temperature and that makes for a miserable outside experience. Even since I had the heat stroke at age 15, I can't bear to high a temp and humidity. It just makes me nauseous and dizzy.
Which means, I am closed up in this house! It seems no different to have the A/C blower fan going or the furnace blower fan going in the winter. I am still all closed up. In fact, I get out more in the winter than I do now. Personally? I am waiting for September and October to get outside and clean up the gardens and the shed and enjoy myself.
I should note here, just because I am a Republican, whatever that is anymore, does not mean I don't believe in Climate Change. In 1968 we visited the Teton Mountains. There was a glacier on the side of the mountain formed in the perfect shape of a skillet--thus the name, Skillet Glacier. When I was back at the same spot in 2001, only part of the skillet bowl part remained. In fact, that is no longer a brown National Parks sign pointing to Skillet Glacier.
The horrendous fires in California. The floods, this unusual heat in Michigan, all point to Climate Change. Besides that, I studied about it way back in the 60's in college Geology class. The Professor predicted these events way back then.
However, there is nothing we can do about it and probably not much we have done to cause it. Climate changes have been going on since earth was created. We have had ice ages and heat waves that lasted for years. Animals and humans died. Volcano's erupting caused giant clouds of ash and dust that shut out the sun for years, and bringing winters of severe magnitude, causing everything to die. Then decades of relatively "normal" weather. The Climate Change chart looks like a giant roller coaster, as it goes up and then down.
Right now we are in another Climate Change era. The oceans are warming, dust storms are flying, higher snow falls and higher temperatures.
It always has been. It always will be.
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The other day on Face Book, I posted that I was going to start my own business. I would call it YouBear. Hire about half a dozen men in their late 60-mid-70's. You could call them to come pick up, drive you to the grocery store, push your cart out to the car, filled up the trunk, drive you home and carry the groceries into the house.
Or--you could call them to come out and trim hedges, cut-back and clean up the gardens, fix the hose connection and do any heavy work needed done.
Or, if you just wanted some company, they could take you out to dinner or sit and watch a ball game with you and just have some conversation. No Hanky-Panky involved, just Rent-A-Man for a couple of hours.
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Remember that afghan I had to rip out 6 times before I understood it? It's coming along nicely now.
I ran out of yarn, so Monday night, I got into my closet, opened up the end of the plastic yarn storage block and grabbed another skein. I was watching American Ninja Warrior and didn't realize for two rows that the yarn I was using was a very light Ecru! The next morning, in the daylight, I pulled the yarn storage box out so I could open it completely and found another skein of white yarn.
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Lastly, just to prove I am losing my mind. I opened up my cable bill and there was a one time charge of $15.99 on it. Wait. What?
So I panicked and called the company. They informed me that on July 27th, at 7:11, I watched an On Demand Movie, call, "You were never there." I told they lovely young lady that Number One: I would never, ever pay that much for a movie. Number Two: at 7:11 I was watching Wheel of Fortune, and Number Three: I had never, ever heard of that movie title.
She took the charge off for me and then walked me through how to put a PIN number in my TV so that if I ever watch an On Demand movie, I will have to enter that number. "To keep children or visitors from accessing On Demand." I told her no one was here except me and two cats. We decided to blame the cats. One of them must have stepped on the remote. (Sure.)
I must have hit the wrong button on the remote control when I was channeling hopping. I had to go into Parental Controls to set up the PIN. I think maybe I need a parent to watch me!!! I really felt like I had done something so senile oriented that I was losing it.
Remember, a couple of months ago? I promised not to ever post about my financial problems....and then I did it again! I guess I was just in shock from getting notice of all the increases in one hour period! It was like a wall was falling down on my head and I was scared to open another envelope or e-mail.
I get anxious with my budget being so tight, with no extra money. I worry about a car breakdown. What is a tree falls on the house in a storm? I couldn't even pay the deductible. My house insurance had dropped the replacement of the unit itself, because it is 20 years old. I had it insured for $35,000.00. I do have full replacement on the contents though, and that cost just went up. The contents are the important stuff anyway. If the house burns up, it would give me an excuse to go live with Pam or Karen or out to New Jersey with Jennifer. I pick NJ, then I can go to The Shore!!
I don't know why my car insurance goes up. My car is also 20 years old I don't have collision on it, only PL and PD, but Michigan has the highest car insurance rates.
Sorry--I will try to keep that worry to myself. Nobody wants to read a post about that stuff! I guess, it's just that this blog is kind of like my journal, with people reading, that will commiserate with me and tell me it will all work out.
...............................and of course it will. God will sustain me.
===========================
I am so sick of this humidity we are having. I check my inside thermometer weather station, and the outside temps looks good. But the humidity is sometimes higher than the temperature and that makes for a miserable outside experience. Even since I had the heat stroke at age 15, I can't bear to high a temp and humidity. It just makes me nauseous and dizzy.
Which means, I am closed up in this house! It seems no different to have the A/C blower fan going or the furnace blower fan going in the winter. I am still all closed up. In fact, I get out more in the winter than I do now. Personally? I am waiting for September and October to get outside and clean up the gardens and the shed and enjoy myself.
I should note here, just because I am a Republican, whatever that is anymore, does not mean I don't believe in Climate Change. In 1968 we visited the Teton Mountains. There was a glacier on the side of the mountain formed in the perfect shape of a skillet--thus the name, Skillet Glacier. When I was back at the same spot in 2001, only part of the skillet bowl part remained. In fact, that is no longer a brown National Parks sign pointing to Skillet Glacier.
The horrendous fires in California. The floods, this unusual heat in Michigan, all point to Climate Change. Besides that, I studied about it way back in the 60's in college Geology class. The Professor predicted these events way back then.
However, there is nothing we can do about it and probably not much we have done to cause it. Climate changes have been going on since earth was created. We have had ice ages and heat waves that lasted for years. Animals and humans died. Volcano's erupting caused giant clouds of ash and dust that shut out the sun for years, and bringing winters of severe magnitude, causing everything to die. Then decades of relatively "normal" weather. The Climate Change chart looks like a giant roller coaster, as it goes up and then down.
Right now we are in another Climate Change era. The oceans are warming, dust storms are flying, higher snow falls and higher temperatures.
It always has been. It always will be.
======================
The other day on Face Book, I posted that I was going to start my own business. I would call it YouBear. Hire about half a dozen men in their late 60-mid-70's. You could call them to come pick up, drive you to the grocery store, push your cart out to the car, filled up the trunk, drive you home and carry the groceries into the house.
Or--you could call them to come out and trim hedges, cut-back and clean up the gardens, fix the hose connection and do any heavy work needed done.
Or, if you just wanted some company, they could take you out to dinner or sit and watch a ball game with you and just have some conversation. No Hanky-Panky involved, just Rent-A-Man for a couple of hours.
==========================
Remember that afghan I had to rip out 6 times before I understood it? It's coming along nicely now.
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Lastly, just to prove I am losing my mind. I opened up my cable bill and there was a one time charge of $15.99 on it. Wait. What?
So I panicked and called the company. They informed me that on July 27th, at 7:11, I watched an On Demand Movie, call, "You were never there." I told they lovely young lady that Number One: I would never, ever pay that much for a movie. Number Two: at 7:11 I was watching Wheel of Fortune, and Number Three: I had never, ever heard of that movie title.
She took the charge off for me and then walked me through how to put a PIN number in my TV so that if I ever watch an On Demand movie, I will have to enter that number. "To keep children or visitors from accessing On Demand." I told her no one was here except me and two cats. We decided to blame the cats. One of them must have stepped on the remote. (Sure.)
I must have hit the wrong button on the remote control when I was channeling hopping. I had to go into Parental Controls to set up the PIN. I think maybe I need a parent to watch me!!! I really felt like I had done something so senile oriented that I was losing it.
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