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Onward and upward! something that you say in order to encourage someone to forget an unpleasant experience or failure and to think about the future instead and move forward.

My e-mail: jjmiller6213@comcast.net

Sunday, April 26, 2020

I finished a genealogy.  An interesting one....oh, I guess I say that about all the genealogies I do, but this one will have a few surprises for my client and that always makes me smile.

When I do the pedigrees, I create them on an Excel spread sheet, then I tape the pages together and take it to the print shop to have them copied onto one long sheet of paper.  Well, the print shop is closed, so I taped the pages together and put them in her book.  They look okay, but not professional like I would like.
We have to do the best we can.
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Technology...what can I say about it.  The undermining of the next generation with their noses stuck in the phones night and day, or playing games.  A way to track us with GPS, so every where our phone goes, "they" know.  

I remember when computers first came out, all big and bulky.  We were told it would make our life easier.  We wouldn't have to keep paper files, as everything we needed would be kept on the computer's hard drive.  They neglected to tell us what to do if we needed an important file and the hard drive on the computer had died and we had no paper in a file folder to get what we needed.  Every company I ever worked for, not only kept their files on the computer system, but a duplicate paper one in a file folder in a file cabinet.

One particular reason I am kind of glad for this newer technology, my grandson Stephen and his Carolyn are having a bridal shower.  I figured with all the 20-30 somethings in attendance it would not be a good idea for me to attend.  You know, that age can be carriers and not even have one symptom.

My daughter Karen, Stephen's mother came up with an idea.

The kids will be at her house, where they are staying right now, and the rest of us will be linked up with ZOOM via cameras on phones or PC's so we can watch and everyone can see and hear everyone else.

A virtual bridal shower.  How very clever.  I have none of that equipment, but Karen has ordered the camera and connection that goes in a USB port on my computer and I will be all set.

I feel sad for this couple.  They both graduated from medical school and of course, no graduation ceremonies.  They both have their residencies at the hospital they wanted so that is good, but they have been planning their wedding for over a year.

06-06-2020.  What a lovely looking date, however....that is now being changed.  We don't know the date of the wedding for sure now.  May still be on the 6th, maybe a few days later.  Of course, no one in attendance but two witnesses and their parents.

They have planned their reception for late August and will re-do their vows, in their wedding clothes, at the reception.

They are such a nice couple and have worked so hard to get their degrees and now their residencies have been postponed until The Virus is not so prevalent in the hospitals they were assigned to.  At least they haven't had to work with The Virus patients.  Stephen is going into Cardiology and Carolyn is going into Family Practice.

I had their wedding sampler all crossed stitched and was about to wash it, iron it and get it framed.  Now I will wait until I hear the actual wedding date, because I might have to cut the threads and pick them out of the date I have stitched.
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I've been watching live streaming church programs.  I really enjoy  pastor Allen Jackson from a big church in Murfreesboro, TN.  He had a regular Sunday morning service that I have watched for years.  Now he is live streaming.

He wanted people to write in the comment line what was the first building they were going to go to when things get opened up.  Without thinking, I typed "Hair Salon".  That shows what a heathen I am because everyone else had commented, "Church".  HAH!  All I can say is, I think some of them were fibbing.

I look like someone I don't even recognize.  A very old lady with gray hair poofing way out to the sides and sticking out up on the top.  The back of my hair is way down the back of my neck, touching my collar.  ARRGH!!!!  

We here in Michigan are still on Stay Home orders and it is mandatory to wear a mask if we have to go to the grocery store, or they won't allow us to enter.  Do those masks really help?  Some medical people say they do, others say they don't.

The ones Karen made are lined with a coffee filter and, she sewed a seam for a pipe stem cleaner to be inserted, along the top edge so the mask can be pinched to hold tightly to the bridge of my nose.  They say when you put on a mask, light a match, bring it up toward your mouth and if you can blow the match out, the mask is no good--won't help a bit.  I tried that, and no matter how close I got that match, I could not blow it out, so........it gives me a certain feeling of safety.

Our Governor had many illogical restrictions.  Not allowed to go out on a lake in a motor boat.  You could with a canoe or a kayak, but not a motor boat.  Not allowed to buy any seeds or garden items.  The Walmart actually had their garden center roped off and "Do Not Enter" signs posted.  Not allowed to play golf.  All the golf course clubhouses around here were closed anyway.  No landscaping companies were allowed to work.

Last week she relaxed some of the restrictions.  You now can go for a motor boat ride and fish if you want to.  The lawn mowing guy can now come, mow the lawn, pick up sticks and rack leaves.  The nurseries around here opened and yesterday, their parking lots were packed.  You can play golf, but you can't use a cart, nor enter the clubhouse AND you can't touch the pin on the green...It has to stay in the hole.

Our State is opening in phases.  This is Phase One.  Phase Two, restaurants' will open with strict rules.  "Vulnerable" people are to still stay home in Phase One and Two.  Phase Three will allow salons, gyms, tattoo parlors, and the like to open, also with strict rules and in Phase Three, we vulnerable's will be allowed to go out and about.  I expect Phase Three isn't going to hit until August!

I will look like Cousin Itt by then.


ARRGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

7 comments:

  1. I am going to hate it if we have to stay in until August. Then the fall flu season will hit and we'll be staying in again.

    I also think people were fibbing if they said the first place they'd go after the lock down is church. Hair salons would be top of my list too.

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  2. I'm going to get my hair cut first thing!! I'm right there with you!
    Next I want to go to Hobby Lobby!!! And then eat at a Mexican restaurant and have a margarita!!!

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  3. write more later
    but I have been cutting my own hair :)
    hold a section out and cut off 2 inches, done this twice and seems to look alright, of course not going anywhere.
    problem with hair is I cannot wash with the severe arthritis.

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  4. My hair length is doing ok, but it's only been 5 weeks since I saw my hairdresser. She has her salon in a home so she was still doing hair, one person at a time. I was her last appointment as she had learned that the county was checking up on beauticians like her and she could lose her license.

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  5. I was going totally grey(white) before Covid, so now I will just blend in with everyone else. I have not left the condo complex since March 12 ... so lucky the kidults go buy groceries and I am ordering a few online (soooo slow in delivery) I want to start building a non-perishable panty in case this happens again in the winter.

    I hope your computer is new enough to use your new add ons! We can do some face-to-face chats whenever you want! Email me and I'll set one up so you can practice, if you want. Oh, the technology we are learning!

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  6. I literally cannot remember when I last got out! Ed is going out to get groceries and prescriptions. Church has been cancelled for 6 weeks now, and he and his buddies haven't had a picking session for longer. We've only been a tiny bit short with one another one time. (Yes, of course he was in the wrong, and of course, I accepted his apology! 😘) I will be glad when he get back to that. Meantime, he talks on the phone when he can, and our son calls everyday to "check on us", he says. We always have an interesting thing to talk about, it seems, whether it be his work or last night's Jeopardy questions, etc.
    I'm so sorry through young ones couldn't have a real shower, but I'm glad Karen set you up with a camera. (I don't know know how to "Zoom", nor do I want to.) Hope they can have their wedding in June.
    Why people can't buy seeds is puzzling to me. 😱 Our governor is as nuts as yours is!
    Take good care of you, girl!!

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  7. I'm sorry to have missed this post. That's a shame about the shower and possibly the wedding date. I know you're so proud of your grandson.

    Haven't been anywhere except for essentials; thankfully I get prescriptions at my local grocery store. I finally got a mask and thought I'd perish from not being able to breathe. That made shopping a bit faster. :)

    Stay well, youngun'

    xoxo

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