tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post1512005076794764345..comments2024-03-21T05:29:14.303-04:00Comments on Onward and Upward--Ever Forward: Am I too harsh?Judyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-45482198356255024952017-05-18T08:26:44.644-04:002017-05-18T08:26:44.644-04:00I'm thinking that would be my best reaction. ...I'm thinking that would be my best reaction. I sure don't need MY mind cluttered with all her problems!Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-83091452668077478792017-05-18T05:41:46.510-04:002017-05-18T05:41:46.510-04:00Well, the Church Lady knows what to say, so from y...Well, the Church Lady knows what to say, so from your lips -- channeling her-- to your neighbor's ears mYbe will penetrate. What would happen if you just said, Hm-m-m, or "That's too bad" and offered no solutions. Maybe, "Gee, I don't know." Sounds like she doesn't really want solutions so ........joaredhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09999395062839739698noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-44517648127743179242017-05-17T21:21:41.893-04:002017-05-17T21:21:41.893-04:00True.True.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-36268016654981566542017-05-17T21:21:16.110-04:002017-05-17T21:21:16.110-04:00I could lock my door, but she would see my car and...I could lock my door, but she would see my car and know I am here and if I didn't answer the door, she'd walk over to Merle and Pearls in a panic. This happened once. It's just easier to let her in and let her talk.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-68018800671796359112017-05-17T18:38:57.442-04:002017-05-17T18:38:57.442-04:00I don't know but some people has a little worl...I don't know but some people has a little world in there mind. <br />Coffee is on<br />peppylady (Dora)https://www.blogger.com/profile/01649272822470007714noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-33578144411732869992017-05-17T17:00:44.189-04:002017-05-17T17:00:44.189-04:00you are a kind soul judy!! you should surround you...you are a kind soul judy!! you should surround yourself with kind, like souls!!<br /><br />maybe you should start locking your door...it would be hard for me to be around someone who is so negative and needy all the time!!!Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16823369215793154260noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-32118201277534533442017-05-17T16:43:39.567-04:002017-05-17T16:43:39.567-04:00Sometimes, I look at her as a psychology case stud...Sometimes, I look at her as a psychology case study. Abnormal Behavior class that I took in college. The weird way she reacts to things can be intriguing. No? Oui?Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-41257464732974432992017-05-17T16:41:04.682-04:002017-05-17T16:41:04.682-04:00It's the way I was raised and taught to help p...It's the way I was raised and taught to help people if I could.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-5525897472836094462017-05-17T16:40:05.143-04:002017-05-17T16:40:05.143-04:00That's probably what I should do. Just listen...That's probably what I should do. Just listen and make appropriate noises. LOLJudyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-1654942052813011002017-05-17T16:39:11.350-04:002017-05-17T16:39:11.350-04:00I can't run too far, she lives about 60 feet f...I can't run too far, she lives about 60 feet from my place. LOLJudyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-19101194018949984382017-05-17T16:38:36.860-04:002017-05-17T16:38:36.860-04:00Okay--I worry that I will hurt her in some way and...Okay--I worry that I will hurt her in some way and I sure don't want to do that.Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-79482159821318653082017-05-17T16:37:06.946-04:002017-05-17T16:37:06.946-04:00I am usually exhausted by the time she leaves, so ...I am usually exhausted by the time she leaves, so I know what you mean!Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-61863428258809609012017-05-17T14:16:07.682-04:002017-05-17T14:16:07.682-04:00Previously...
I have wondered....
How do you...Previously... <br /><br />I have wondered.... <br /><br />How do you interact with this woman, at all?<br /><br />Beside a babbling brook...https://www.blogger.com/profile/14230422491225783790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-39509934669797441472017-05-17T13:17:59.593-04:002017-05-17T13:17:59.593-04:00No way could I put up with that for SIX YEARS. Yo...No way could I put up with that for SIX YEARS. You are beyond nice. She is beyond crazy!<br />The Awkward Widowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03729456066739275695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-61328760785359882302017-05-17T11:25:52.657-04:002017-05-17T11:25:52.657-04:00Narcissist - that's what I've been thinkin...Narcissist - that's what I've been thinking for as long as I've known you and her (lol). It's a shame, really. I hope she's at least glad to have you to run to. But, actually who really knows. I started to say you have more patience than me, but maybe not. I just wouldn't have the words you do to talk to her. I'd listen, and that's about it.<br /><br />xoxoSallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02865722713732049339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-10950695789834444442017-05-17T10:38:33.060-04:002017-05-17T10:38:33.060-04:00Dar is a narcissist. Just give up trying to change...Dar is a narcissist. Just give up trying to change her. Your best bet, run as far and as fast as you can from her.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-10596446890395856502017-05-17T10:33:50.771-04:002017-05-17T10:33:50.771-04:00Judi I think you have the patience of a saint! I u...Judi I think you have the patience of a saint! I understand there is some deep seated problems and she is not willing to examine them or to act upon them. She is going to always continue to see the world they way she does unless she wants to change. Dar doesn't seem to be capable of feeling empathy for others. That doesn't insinuate she is a bad person, just that her only instinct is to be honed in on only herself. You were not too harsh, I thought you were very gentle with her.ANGEL ABBYGRACEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08777233381092226583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-89522236743517636122017-05-17T08:28:28.018-04:002017-05-17T08:28:28.018-04:00She moved in Spring of 2011.
When we first met, I ...She moved in Spring of 2011.<br />When we first met, I remember telling Fred, "I think she and I are going to be best friends." Judyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03399435237919718544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7267296850244884919.post-66949762890579136332017-05-17T01:43:02.909-04:002017-05-17T01:43:02.909-04:00Volunteer? Good advice. Thinking of someone other ...Volunteer? Good advice. Thinking of someone other than ourselves usually helps with emotional or physical pain. It may not alleviate the pain, but it helps with coping - as long as it's something she's physically able to do. I was surprised to read that you haven't known Dar longer. For some reason, I thought you'd known each other for ages. Bella Rumhttp://bellarum.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com